So, I've known many of you for years and years. And I've been told I'm blunt by just about all of you (if not ALL of you.) And I talked to my husband about it last night (idk how it came up)...and he agreed that I'm blunt, and some people can be put off by it. The thing is, for me, I'm not intentionally TRYING to be blunt...it's not even a thought for me. I just say what I think (and usually, I use some sort of a filter.)
I was wondering...
What do you mean when you say I'm blunt?
Does it have a good or bad connotation in your mind?
Is being blunt off putting to you?
Has there ever been a specific time when I said something and you were like... "Girl is BLUNT as a spoon"?
Do you feel like my bluntness has gotten better, worse, or the same over time?
Other thoughts about this?
I'm not trying to start drama, and I won't be upset about the responses. I'm genuinely curious about these things, since this is such a subconscious part of my behavior.