My fiance and I are planning our wedding as a couple, so any ideas I come up with are yes or no'd by him. I truly love my future in laws and can't wait to be a part of their family. I ask for opinions constantly to make my FMIL feel included, & I am given negative feedback on nearly any idea thrown her way. That's frustrating!
Due to part of my family's rocky history & the rest of the familys deep religious beliefs (not to mention, the cost), we decided to not even entertain the idea of alcohol at the reception. Everything was fine until we received a call stating that we needed to be accomodating to everyone and that my FH's family was extremely unhappy with our decision. We were told that family views didn't matter & that we should rethink serving alcohol to our guests because they would not be able to enjoy themselves. My family is in the ministry and would be very unlikely to accept this. How do I apease both families? I'm ready to say," no wedding, let's elope!"