Help! I'm not sure what to do, or if I should/can do anything. My FMIL has stated that she "wants to stop by to see me while I'm getting ready" on the morning of the wedding. This is now, yet another, thing she is inviting herself to (she already invited herself wedding dress shopping -- and went, it worked OK for the most part). When I mentioned that she'd see me at the church - I don't mind if she stops by for a few moments beforehand - she asked "oh, is that where you'll be putting on the dress?". She wants to be in the room as I'm getting dressed! And she wants to watch me get ready. I thought she should be with her son! She has two boys, and seems to be living vicariously through me for her wish that she'd get to be involved with a wedding. Now my mom isn't local, but my mom will be with me! Not to mention between bridesmaids, photographers, hair stylist, parents and more, my townhouse will already have over 10 people in it! My FI said he's going to talk with her about overstepping (again), but he hasn't yet. What do I say if she brings up wanting to be with me the morning of the wedding again?