We are registering tomorrow at BBB, and I'm worried I'm going to go overboard, any advice?? I have pretty much a list of items I know I want and a list I want to look at different brands of. I'm worried I'm going to get overwhelmed and not make the right choices..mainly registering for pots and pans..fine china..servewear, bakewear the usual..I don't want to look too gift grabby when registering for fine china..both of our sides of family are about 8 ppl all together but I'm afraid it will look like way too much to register for all that should I only register for 5 place settings to start?