In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-52?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6d19693c-dbcc-4a24-9083-ef01621ca13dPost:ea8266c9-a462-4726-b084-f38a3c04a4e5">Re: FFF</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : It is FFF, and I flamed people who knock AK about her H. But if we're going the route of flaming for spousal actions and choices, I flame the ladies who think a good marriage is one where you can only be serious 100% of the time, and your H can never say anything negative about you, joking or not. Fine if thats your relationship, but that would send me running to the hills after about day 4 probably. Posted by dnbeach12[/QUOTE]
<div>Joking is great. Believe it or not, H and I do it all the time. But it is possible to joke without insulting someones intelligence.</div><div> </div><div>Like I said before, maybe I'm reading too much into it. It came off as serious to me rather than a joke when I read it. </div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-52?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6d19693c-dbcc-4a24-9083-ef01621ca13dPost:c2b9907a-cc6a-468e-920d-b32641df089d">Re: FFF</a>: [QUOTE]OMG that jaguar bedspread is scary. I don't care how AK and her husband interact and even if he IS a douche? Eh, no skin of my ass, I didn't marry him. Posted by FutureMrsTR[/QUOTE]
TR, I'm so glad you like it lol. Would you like one? I have a feeling they'll be on serious clearance soon - unless the trailer park down the street finds it.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-52?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:6d19693c-dbcc-4a24-9083-ef01621ca13dPost:4a045952-79e0-45eb-8c7c-cdd288155c1c">Re: FFF</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Just say he's the captain of the douchecanoe and call it a day. Posted by arbolita[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-52?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6d19693c-dbcc-4a24-9083-ef01621ca13dPost:62ab9800-0a70-439e-9680-df3fa468c1ed">Re: FFF</a>: [QUOTE]AK, FWIW - every picture of your husband makes me giggle - he looks like a goofball - just like my H. People who flame him are dummy heads - dummy heads who I am now flaming. And you have a new job - so that's awesome. Posted by LDYGTR13[/QUOTE]
I think it's possibly they have the same sense of humor, which is fine, but it certainly ain't the kind I possess.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-52?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6d19693c-dbcc-4a24-9083-ef01621ca13dPost:ec744b5e-60fa-4e3a-afb4-e81d822095ff">Re: FFF</a>: [QUOTE]Cross-board flame, but she's posted here too: I flame the DaughterofHelam chick for complaining about her FMIL saying that her horse/riding lessons are a luxury (and saying that if she couldn't afford the horse, she wouldn't have it) when, in fact, she and FI are living with FMIL. Umm. If you can't afford to live on your own, you can't afford to have a horse. Sorry. Posted by tidetravel[/QUOTE]
I saw that post earlier today and it left a bad taste in my mouth.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-52?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6d19693c-dbcc-4a24-9083-ef01621ca13dPost:d1cf99c2-cdd0-4b69-91f0-f5f99956414e">Re: FFF</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I saw that post earlier today and it left a bad taste in my mouth. Posted by JenGin74[/QUOTE]
Link?
I also flame the girl who posted earlier who said she just got engaged, but can't afford a wedding, and doesn't think her parents will pay for it. WTF? Is she used to not thinking ahead?
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-52?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6d19693c-dbcc-4a24-9083-ef01621ca13dPost:ac3a8849-6b0e-48cf-aa29-4bef54f1a630">Re: FFF</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I shouldn't have said that the way that I did. Consider myself flamed for saying that I don't know who you are - that was stupid. <strong>BUT I still think I disagree overall for flaming an H. </strong> Posted by andy71781[/QUOTE]
You weren't around when Jessjo was a regular. RachnRich also got majorly flamed for her husband/relationship on several occassions.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-52?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6d19693c-dbcc-4a24-9083-ef01621ca13dPost:ba5245fe-e4af-4f33-9212-f1ec14dc588e">Re: FFF</a>: [QUOTE]My husband is like a million times smarter than me. I don't need an IQ test to prove that. Posted by salt78[/QUOTE] yup, same here. ::kicks husband::
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-52?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:6d19693c-dbcc-4a24-9083-ef01621ca13dPost:0198abce-e4a5-4577-8f6b-65fdb2698632">Re: FFF</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Agreed. We all only know about the posters and spouses what they choose for us to know. And I don't see anyone ever posting "my H is soooooo amazing because he did ______." No, the posts we usually see about a spouse are things like "haha H did ______ today," or "I'm so mad at H right now because of ________." So I think its shitty to form judgment on someone you've never met for yourself, or had any communication with. Posted by dnbeach12[/QUOTE]
thank you - you said it much better than I did. I did NOT mean to imply that regs were somehow immune from flaming or that LP hadn't been around enough to flame. It came out like that and that's my bad.
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In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-52?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:6d19693c-dbcc-4a24-9083-ef01621ca13dPost:ab3f3295-e25d-475d-8432-ff820716ae21">Re: FFF</a>: [QUOTE]LP's been around for awhile. Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]
Ditto this. And if you're going to put stuff out there, it's going to be judged (I think a few people on here know the deal a little too well). And even if LP were new she has just as much right to give her opinion as anyone else. I don't agree with it, necessarily, but I don't see a problem with her saying it.
Mandy can't have a perfect husband or she gets flamed, and AK can't have a goofy husband who makes comments to her that she, herself doesn't deem offensive. I guess you just can't talk about your spouse here.
Fish - you're on a thin rope, tread carefully before people start hating your H!
I remember getting flamed up the wazoo about a year ago because I said that H wouldn't "let" me get a dog. People were allllll up in arms. Dude, he makes the all the money we have, and while it annoys me that we can't get one, yeah, he totally has the right to say "No, we can't afford it"
Salt, I secretly think you want someone to stalk and kill me in my sleep so you can just sit back and watch it like my life is some sort of game to you.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-52?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:6d19693c-dbcc-4a24-9083-ef01621ca13dPost:9633bfe8-7e99-42e5-b060-0ce63720a826">Re: FFF</a>: [QUOTE]I think I brag about my husband pretty regularly. I like to keep it level in here. Posted by crfische[/QUOTE]
I stand corrected. You do often post about super H.
anyways, andy's kitty cate is anerable. that's what I say when the word "adorable" isn't enough. ETA: kitty CAT. not cate. I have no idea what the cat's name is.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-52?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:6d19693c-dbcc-4a24-9083-ef01621ca13dPost:e8b3a3ad-3127-44ae-a32f-39dbedec080b">Re: FFF</a>: [QUOTE]anyways, andy's kitty cate is anerable. that's what I say when the word "adorable" isn't enough. Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]
awww thanks!
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In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-52?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6d19693c-dbcc-4a24-9083-ef01621ca13dPost:34d99514-ef40-41dd-99f2-7838b82bc133">Re: FFF</a>: [QUOTE]Salt, I secretly think you want someone to stalk and kill me in my sleep so you can just sit back and watch it like my life is some sort of game to you. Posted by crfische[/QUOTE]
<div>I think I just got a great idea for a reality tv show...</div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-52?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6d19693c-dbcc-4a24-9083-ef01621ca13dPost:9633bfe8-7e99-42e5-b060-0ce63720a826">Re: FFF</a>: [QUOTE]I think I brag about my husband pretty regularly. I like to keep it level in here. Posted by crfische[/QUOTE]
Well, we can't all have perfect husbands like you and Mandy do! Just kidding. Mine is pretty awesome, even if he is a goober sometimes.
As for AK's husband, I figure if she's okay with what he says, I am too. *shrug* I don't remember her saying that he said/did anything particularly horrifying.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-52?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:6d19693c-dbcc-4a24-9083-ef01621ca13dPost:6bd6dbc6-640d-482d-a1c2-971c6d9042e2">Re: FFF</a>: [QUOTE]And I'm wondering if Gohti lurked for awhile, saw that Fishy is well liked around here, and is about to go single white female on her ass. Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]
I actually wondered the same thing when she said it was pronounced Fish.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-52?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:6d19693c-dbcc-4a24-9083-ef01621ca13dPost:884396f6-5da1-4928-b40f-d0dd612b6471">Re: FFF</a>: [QUOTE]I remember getting flamed up the wazoo about a year ago because I said that H wouldn't "let" me get a dog. People were allllll up in arms. Dude, he makes the all the money we have, and while it annoys me that we can't get one, yeah, he totally has the right to say "No, we can't afford it" Posted by Snippylynn[/QUOTE] it's beyond retarded that anyone thought that was flame-worthy. last I checked, marriage is a partnership and things need to be agreed upon by both parties. I wouldn't want my H bringing home a pet without me saying yes.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-52?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:6d19693c-dbcc-4a24-9083-ef01621ca13dPost:f5119e40-2374-44ea-8d9e-27822028dac1">Re: FFF</a>: [QUOTE]My H has his hand cupped on my rear end in EVERY wedding photo. He's possessive, obviously. Jealous? Posted by pinkpinot[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-52?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:6d19693c-dbcc-4a24-9083-ef01621ca13dPost:6bd6dbc6-640d-482d-a1c2-971c6d9042e2">Re: FFF</a>: [QUOTE]And I'm wondering if Gohti lurked for awhile, saw that Fishy is well liked around here, and is about to go single white female on her ass. Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]
Re: FFF
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : It is FFF, and I flamed people who knock AK about her H. But if we're going the route of flaming for spousal actions and choices, I flame the ladies who think a good marriage is one where you can only be serious 100% of the time, and your H can never say anything negative about you, joking or not. Fine if thats your relationship, but that would send me running to the hills after about day 4 probably.
Posted by dnbeach12[/QUOTE]
<div>Joking is great. Believe it or not, H and I do it all the time. But it is possible to joke without insulting someones intelligence.</div><div>
</div><div>Like I said before, maybe I'm reading too much into it. It came off as serious to me rather than a joke when I read it. </div>
I think I'd be considered the douche in my marriage.
[QUOTE]OMG that jaguar bedspread is scary. I don't care how AK and her husband interact and even if he IS a douche? Eh, no skin of my ass, I didn't marry him.
Posted by FutureMrsTR[/QUOTE]
TR, I'm so glad you like it lol. Would you like one? I have a feeling they'll be on serious clearance soon - unless the trailer park down the street finds it.
I'm doing Team in Training for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society!
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Just say he's the captain of the douchecanoe and call it a day.
Posted by arbolita[/QUOTE]
Haha and I'm sailing with the captain.
Married!
[QUOTE]AK, FWIW - every picture of your husband makes me giggle - he looks like a goofball - just like my H. People who flame him are dummy heads - dummy heads who I am now flaming. And you have a new job - so that's awesome.
Posted by LDYGTR13[/QUOTE]
I think it's possibly they have the same sense of humor, which is fine, but it certainly ain't the kind I possess.
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[QUOTE]Cross-board flame, but she's posted here too: I flame the DaughterofHelam chick for complaining about her FMIL saying that her horse/riding lessons are a luxury (and saying that if she couldn't afford the horse, she wouldn't have it) when, in fact, she and FI are living with FMIL. Umm. If you can't afford to live on your own, you can't afford to have a horse. Sorry.
Posted by tidetravel[/QUOTE]
I saw that post earlier today and it left a bad taste in my mouth.
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The Margarita Evolution
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I saw that post earlier today and it left a bad taste in my mouth.
Posted by JenGin74[/QUOTE]
Link?
I also flame the girl who posted earlier who said she just got engaged, but can't afford a wedding, and doesn't think her parents will pay for it. WTF? Is she used to not thinking ahead?
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I shouldn't have said that the way that I did. Consider myself flamed for saying that I don't know who you are - that was stupid. <strong>BUT I still think I disagree overall for flaming an H. </strong>
Posted by andy71781[/QUOTE]
You weren't around when Jessjo was a regular. RachnRich also got majorly flamed for her husband/relationship on several occassions.
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[QUOTE]My husband is like a million times smarter than me. I don't need an IQ test to prove that.
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]
yup, same here.
::kicks husband::
{pwanning}{mawwied}
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Agreed. We all only know about the posters and spouses what they choose for us to know. And I don't see anyone ever posting "my H is soooooo amazing because he did ______." No, the posts we usually see about a spouse are things like "haha H did ______ today," or "I'm so mad at H right now because of ________." So I think its shitty to form judgment on someone you've never met for yourself, or had any communication with.
Posted by dnbeach12[/QUOTE]
thank you - you said it much better than I did. I did NOT mean to imply that regs were somehow immune from flaming or that LP hadn't been around enough to flame. It came out like that and that's my bad.
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[QUOTE]LP's been around for awhile.
Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]
Ditto this. And if you're going to put stuff out there, it's going to be judged (I think a few people on here know the deal a little too well). And even if LP were new she has just as much right to give her opinion as anyone else. I don't agree with it, necessarily, but I don't see a problem with her saying it.
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teach YOU to flame a poster's husband...
{pwanning}{mawwied}
Fish - you're on a thin rope, tread carefully before people start hating your H!
Wedding stuff.
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The Margarita Evolution
[QUOTE]I think I brag about my husband pretty regularly. I like to keep it level in here.
Posted by crfische[/QUOTE]
I stand corrected. You do often post about super H.
ETA: kitty CAT. not cate. I have no idea what the cat's name is.
{pwanning}{mawwied}
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[QUOTE]anyways, andy's kitty cate is anerable. that's what I say when the word "adorable" isn't enough.
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]
awww thanks!
[QUOTE]Salt, I secretly think you want someone to stalk and kill me in my sleep so you can just sit back and watch it like my life is some sort of game to you.
Posted by crfische[/QUOTE]
<div>I think I just got a great idea for a reality tv show...</div>
[QUOTE]I think I brag about my husband pretty regularly. I like to keep it level in here.
Posted by crfische[/QUOTE]
Well, we can't all have perfect husbands like you and Mandy do!
Just kidding. Mine is pretty awesome, even if he is a goober sometimes.
As for AK's husband, I figure if she's okay with what he says, I am too. *shrug* I don't remember her saying that he said/did anything particularly horrifying.
[QUOTE]And I'm wondering if Gohti lurked for awhile, saw that Fishy is well liked around here, and is about to go single white female on her ass.
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]
I actually wondered the same thing when she said it was pronounced Fish.
[QUOTE]I remember getting flamed up the wazoo about a year ago because I said that H wouldn't "let" me get a dog. People were allllll up in arms. Dude, he makes the all the money we have, and while it annoys me that we can't get one, yeah, he totally has the right to say "No, we can't afford it"
Posted by Snippylynn[/QUOTE]
it's beyond retarded that anyone thought that was flame-worthy. last I checked, marriage is a partnership and things need to be agreed upon by both parties. I wouldn't want my H bringing home a pet without me saying yes.
{pwanning}{mawwied}
[QUOTE]My H has his hand cupped on my rear end in EVERY wedding photo. He's possessive, obviously. Jealous?
Posted by pinkpinot[/QUOTE]
I did notice that.
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[QUOTE]And I'm wondering if Gohti lurked for awhile, saw that Fishy is well liked around here, and is about to go single white female on her ass.
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]
Poor puppy :(
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