Anyone who had an outdoor wedding wore heels?? Our wedding will be this December in my grandparents backyard and I'm worried that if I wear pumps that my heels will stick into the ground while I'm walking. Plus I can't find any cute wedges that don't look too summery and I've thought of the idea of flats but I'm 4'11 and need some height.
Also, my grandmother, who is very opinionated about EVERYTHING, said that my bridesmaids shouldn't wear black because they will look like vampires walking down the aisle. Our colors are red and black and I wouldn't mind a red dress for them but I haven't found the right color red that I like.
Help!