The correct solution is to ask them to be the guest book attendants.
ETA: On the facebook shiz, I get it now. I was just wondering how that all played out, and where it fell in the timeline. So that all went down after their bachelor party/wedding/declaration of your trashy whiteness, yea?
OP: Your wedding isn't until January 2012. You really need to let this go. You can spend the next 20 months worrying about whether or not someone is going to crash your wedding, and what will you have accomplished? You'll have spent 20 months worrying.
Seriously, let this go. 20 months from now, you might be friends again. You might not be friends. They might have moved to Istanbul. You might have moved to Istanbul.
You're wasting a lot of time and energy over something that is almost 2 years away. Things can change an awful lot in 20 months.
"Trix, it's what they/our parents wanted. Why so judgemental? And why is your wedding date over a year and a half ago? And why do you not have a groom's name? And why have you posted over 12,000 posts? And why do you always say mean things to brides?" palegirl146
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_wedding-party-drama-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:d5722dc6-78f0-4364-ba44-2b7f299972a4Post:6866b895-1dbb-4a0e-9e39-213957b06a3f">Re: Wedding Party Drama!!</a>: [QUOTE]But, they have told other people they WILL be at our wedding. Whether they are invited or not. Posted by Charlinichole[/QUOTE] Haha, now that is pretty trashy.
Re: Wedding Party Drama!!
The correct solution is to ask them to be the guest book attendants.
ETA: On the facebook shiz, I get it now. I was just wondering how that all played out, and where it fell in the timeline. So that all went down after their bachelor party/wedding/declaration of your trashy whiteness, yea?
Bloggy Mel.
Just drop them like a hot potato. They'll totally forget about it all by then because they'll have some other MUD to entertain themselves.
Don't attack back - it sounds like they're crazy, don't lower yourself to their level.
Seriously, let this go. 20 months from now, you might be friends again. You might not be friends. They might have moved to Istanbul. You might have moved to Istanbul.
You're wasting a lot of time and energy over something that is almost 2 years away. Things can change an awful lot in 20 months.
[QUOTE]But, they have told other people they WILL be at our wedding. Whether they are invited or not.
Posted by Charlinichole[/QUOTE]
Haha, now that is pretty trashy.