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Am I being a Bridezilla?
Is it inappropriate to request that your 2 bridesmaids who are your sisters that are very light skinned to get spray tans? I have requested this and my sister refuses to even consider it and is offended I care so much about her skin tone. I love the sun and indoor tan year around please don't respond about that, that's not my question and they are wearing little black dresses. Am I being unreasonable?
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Re: Am I being a Bridezilla?
Yes it's very inappropriate. 99% of people would be extremely offended by your request and you owe those sisters one hell of an apology
[QUOTE]Is it inappropriate to request that your 2 bridesmaids who are your sisters that are very light skinned to get spray tans? I have requested this and my sister refuses to even consider it and is offended I care so much about her skin tone. I love the sun and indoor tan year around please don't respond about that, that's not my question and they are wearing little black dresses. Am I being unreasonable?
Posted by lmac2582[/QUOTE]
<div>Yep, you're an incredibly inappropriate bridezilla on this one.</div><div>Completely unreasoanble.</div><div>
</div><div>Apologize and accept that some people don't think sunworshipping, fake bake or bathing in tang is the way they should look.</div>
You could have suggested it, and then paid for it. But since you pretty much demanded it, and have offended your sister, you need to apologize and let it go!
[QUOTE]Is it inappropriate to request that your 2 bridesmaids who are your sisters that are very light skinned to get spray tans? I have requested this and my sister refuses to even consider it and is offended I care so much about her skin tone. I love the sun and indoor tan year around please don't respond about that, that's not my question and they are wearing little black dresses. Am I being unreasonable?
Posted by lmac2582[/QUOTE]
yes it is inappropriate, and you're probably going to get skin cancer and look like this:
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by the time you're 40.
choose a different color bridesmaid. hth
Posted by lmac2582[/QUOTE]
then why is your question, "am i being a bridezilla?"
WHY NO UNDERSTAND ENGLISH AS SHE IS SPOKEN
or you are just a a big fat hypocrite.
[QUOTE]I did not join this forum to be judged, I thought this was where brides could ask for advice, somewhere we would be understood and have<strong> non biased opinions</strong> to keep us in order. If you don't want to help with at least constructive criticism then don't reply.
Posted by lmac2582[/QUOTE]
that doesn't mean what you think it means. does not compute.
<div class="header"><h2 class="me">bias</h2></div><div class="body"><div class="pbk"><div class="luna-Ent"><span class="dnindex"><span><span>2.</span> </span></span><span><span>a</span> <span>particular</span> <span>tendency</span> <span>or</span> <span style="color:#333333;cursor:default;">inclination,</span> <span style="color:#333333;cursor:default;">especially</span> <span>one</span> <span>that</span> <span>prevents</span> <span>unprejudiced</span> <span>consideration</span> <span>of</span> <span>a</span> <span style="color:#0055bb;cursor:pointer;">question;</span> <span style="color:#333333;cursor:default;">prejudice
<div class="header"><h2 class="me">opinion</h2></div><div class="body"><div class="pbk"><div class="luna-Ent"><span class="dnindex"><span><span>1.</span> </span></span><span><span>a</span> <span>belief</span> <span>or</span> <span style="color:#333333;cursor:default;">judgment</span> <span>that</span> <span style="color:#333333;cursor:default;">rests</span> <span>on</span> <span>grounds</span> <span>insufficient</span> <span>to</span> <span>produce</span> <span>complete</span> <span style="color:#333333;cursor:default;">certainty.</span> </span></div><div class="luna-Ent"><span class="dnindex"><span><span>2.</span> </span></span><span><span>a</span> <span>personal</span> <span>view,</span> <span>attitude,</span> <span>or</span> <span style="color:#333333;cursor:default;">appraisal.</span>
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What you cannot do is demand that your bridesmaids do anything other than wear whatever polyester garbage bag you've selected for them and stand next to you on your wedding day.
[QUOTE]"bathing in tang" is the best thing I have ever read.
Posted by tawillers[/QUOTE]
Yes.
[QUOTE]My sister tanned for all of her dances in high school, I didn't know it was so offensive to her now.
Posted by lmac2582[/QUOTE]
Because she's older now and realizes that even spray tan is a carcinogen? It's her body, not yours, so she can say she won't do something to it and doesn't have to give you a reason for denying your request.