I come from a large family-3 sis/1bro. Our wedding is small. His family is tiny. I only have a MOH (twin sis), no bridesmaids, mainly b/c we just cant afford a huge WP. Anyway, I think I've done a good job of making all of my sisters feel at least a part of the process (aka I took my SIL and neice to the cupcake tasting, one sister's kids are in the WP)..except one.
I haven't asked help from her and I'm looking for some suggestions on how to make her feel a bit more included. She's 13 years older than me and we're not really that close, but she's such a good person and I want her to feel included--at least I don't want her to feel like she's the only one I didn't include. She'll be invited to the shower and bachelorette party. She's not good at crafts. The honest truth is I'm not sure if I need help from her at all other than maybe day of, but I don't want her to feel like I'm taking advantage of er either.
Yikes! Any ideas?