Hello everyone. I have a question for those ladies who were recently (or not so recently) married. Was your photographer worth it?
My fiance and I are struggling with how much we want to spend on a photographer. At first, we started with a modest amount (less than what most people pay for wedding photography) because we deemed that one of the least important things to us. As the wedding planning has progressed, though, it seems to be getting more and more important. We have it within our budget to spend more but my dad made a good point the other day, he said "Right now, this seems like such a huge important deal, but after you get married, is it still going to seem as important?" Well, probably not.... I guess.... Well, I don't know!!!! Would I have rather used that extra money for our honeymoon, or for a new puppy, or for a house?
Are you ladies still ok with the fact that you spend hundreds upon hundreds of dollars for something that sits in an album? Or do you look back and think, wow, I would have been happy spending half as much and having something decent that captured the day. (I don't want something awful, don't get me wrong, just not magazine quality)
Any input is appreciated because I don't want to regret my decision.
Thanks guys!

Re: Was your photographer worth it?
we were just married in Nov. and at first we thought we could get a friend to take photos because anyone can take photos, right?? Well, we ended up hiring a fabulous and affordable photographer. He was worth every penny and he was extremely professional and unintrusive like some. We didn't even know he was there Dan Nystedt, daniel@nystedtphotography. He gave us a disc and we are able to copy the photos we want when we want them. Photos are great because the day really goes by so fast it really hard to keep track of every minute of the actual day. He got so many great shots that we have sent to family and friends.
Bottom line is I would say you want to seal the memories of that day for the rest of your life. Many years from now you will look at photos and say remember when with a smile on your face. I do it now when I look at our photos and we got married 2 months ago.
But to answer your question, yes, my photographer was worth every penny. She is on the mid to higher range for our area but I've been married over a year and we still look at our pics all the time and love every one of them. She was also invaluable to me on my wedding day when my event planner bailed. She bustled my dress, pinned flowers, kept us on schedule, everything.
But photography was very important to us so we budgeted more for it.
With All the Trimmings
You don't have to spend a large amount of money on a good photographer. But a good, dependable photographer is completely worth it!
In my area, I feel that there is a distinct difference in the portfolios of the $1000-$3000 group vs. the $3000-6000 group. I'm going for a smaller package with a more expensive (and IMO, more talented) photographer because of what I saw in the portfolios.
Of course, if photography isn't your thing and all the portfolios look the same to you and your FI, then you probably don't have to splurge.