So Ive been having issues my my venue when we first booked everything seemed great the venue is steps away from the beach walking distance from the church. ( this is on a military base run by the military) So about 2 weeks ago they told us there are changes in command and we cannot accomdate you for a plated dinner..okay breaking the contract, but I can do buffet okay until they gave us the buffet listing for food, glazed ham, turkey and stuffing, meatballs, in my eyes not something I want to serve at my wedding. So they said you can try an outside caterer and bring them in. So we met with people and really like them and then the venue says the caterer can not use the kitchen in the venue after they said before they could. They keep going back and forth with things that they said, and it's really frustrating and upsetting because everything was planned out and it is less than 3 months away. Now they are saying is our only choice is to use their buffet choices and that is it!
So my Dad and his girlfriend found another venue, but it is probably going to be much more pricy. But the ouside caterer that we like can come in and have full access to the kitchen, it is overlooking the bay, I have not seen the room yet, but my Dad and his girlfriend have a meeting with them today to see exactly what kind of pricing they can give us. (I'm over an hour away at college, and I have work for the next three days otherwise I would be down there meeting with them too. ) But then there is the idea of us getting married there on the deck over the water instead of a chruch. Also there is a completely different room that is available if it was to rain for the ceramony. Which I think that I am okay with but my vison ever since I was younger was to be in a church.
I am just completely stressed I couldn't even sleep last night...I guess I know it is possible to move everything, but I have had this vison in my head of where everything is and the set up of the floorplan etc. That everything being completely different. I spoke to my FI about it and he said whatever I want is fine, as long as we are together and getting married that day he doesn't care where it is, which is is true, but after all these months of planning for somewhere and now it is probably going to change.
Any advice? I just needed to vent.