I am getting married aug 27th, 2011 and this is my second and my FI first. My son is 9 years old and his "real" father does not and see him since he was a baby. My FI has stepped up and really became his dad and he wants to make him part of the ceremony. So I guess my question is I am looking for ideas on how to make him feel special and that we are becoming a family. Thanks in advance.