Hello Ladies! So I've not been on the board because FI became quiet ill... he has a blood disorder. Our October wedding has been delayed because of it and I am quite bummed; but thankful that FI will be okay. In trying to make (yet again) a wedding, FI did mention wanting something with more of a party atmosphere and not as strict religious. He specifically mentioned a little hotel we stayed at often in San Diego and near the Rose Garden where he proposed. I know they have done a few Jewish weddings there, so I can compromise on that. Our anniversary is on June 23rd; but that falls on a Thursday. It is a special day that we celebrate each year and next year will be 5 years we've been together. What are your thoughts on a Thursday wedding? I know it is not traditional; but it is what we initially wanted and my sister couldn't make it this past June so we changed it and now here we are again. FI does not want to delay the wedding much more and neither do I. Just curious as to your thoughts. I must say it did seem like we had to cater to everyone else's needs when planning and FI refuses to do that again.