Well, I took everyone's advice and went to the Town Shop and bought a dress! After going to 5 different stores in Florida and trying MANY dresses I finally found the one. Giovanna (SP?) was my consultant and she was great! I've been in NY for 10 days and I am close to booking my venue, picking a photographer and florist. I have a DJ and am going to book my friend's band, Dr.Mudd. Has anyone heard of them? This has been a very productive trip.