So, my fiancee and I have been shooting for an October wedding. Little did I know, his parents think its too soon. I had no idea. We've been planning for October, and even picked the ninth with our venue. Anyway, I went yesterday with my mother in law and my bridesmaids to pick out their dresses. I mentioned to the consultant that our wedding was the ninth, and my mother in law flipped s***! She not only had no idea about anything about our wedding, my fiancee told her we were getting married next year!!! I'm in shock! She takes off crying. On the drive home, she explodes in the car. She tells me that we're not ready to get married, that we need to save more money, and that her son needs to man up and be straight forward about what he wants. So on top of the fact that my future husband lied to both of us, I discovered that his parents don't approve of our decission all at once. My fiancee felt terrible about it. I forgave him because I know its in his nature to try and please everyone. But, then when I asked what he really wanted, he said that getting married next year is the better idea. So, I've been planning an October wedding for months by myself for nothing. Words of wisdom? Or am I wrong to be sad?