So, FI and I think that MOH might be trying to put a wedge between us. Her and I hung out a lot this past weekend, and then she pulled some crap that has me wondering.
Short backstory: she has known FI since high school, and has known me for a little over 4 years. I was a BM in her wedding. My kids call her Aunt Phyllis and her daughter calls me Aunt Krys. She introduced me and FI. She has been married for almost 3 years to a wonderful man for her. He puts her on a pedistal and loves her daughter like his own. Her daughter calls him Dad, and calls her bio-dad by his first name. But she has an ex from her past that is one of her best friends. Her husband doesn't care for this friendship, but tolerates it. She still has deep feelings for her ex and the ring on her finger is the only thing stopping both of them from crossing a line. She had her daughter at 16. I had my first child at 23 and second at 25, but my mother plays a big role in their lives and the used to go to my mom's house every weekend because I worked on weekends, and it gave me a break from the kids.
Fast forward to this weekend. Wednesday night, her, our friend Bobby and I go to see SATC2 at the midnight showing. FI watched all 3 kids so we could go. Her husband was at work. We all had a good time. Friday night, MOH, Bobby and her ex all came over and hung out. We all had a pretty good time. Saturday, we had a girls' day at the mall, which I hadn't had in a long time. Kids went to my mom's, FI was at work, then had to go pick up his daughter for the weekend. He was fine with me having a girls' day and night out. After shopping, we go to my house to get ready and then head out to the club. I am a social creature, big time, and within 30 minutes of getting there, I had taken about 5 shots and had 2 mixed drinks bought for me. Mostly from friends that I had known a long time. I stayed on the dancefloor most the night. One of the friends that was there is Dante. The previous week, he told me that he was kinda weirded out by how Bobby was looking at him, so I added Dante to the list of guys that are off limits for Bobby. I told Bobby this. Usually the only ones on this list are boyfriends, but I made an exception for Dante. Bobby ends up going too far hitting on Dante and it pissed me off. Bobby and I got in a huge fight. I ended up slapping him back at my house and MOH told FI that she's sorry she introduced us. The next day, she texts FI and tells him that if she had done what I did the previous week (a night she wasn't even around for) then she would be divorced. I'm sitting here like WTH??? She won't talk to me at all and told FI yesterday that I'm "daft enough to make her out to be the crazy one so she will be discredited". She's still not talking to me at all. Do I just give it some time and see what happens or should I call her out on it?