I'm in a bit of a dilemma. When we started wedding planning months ago, my fiance's parents offered to put together small welcome bags for guests when they check into the hotel. Now at the last minute (the wedding is a week away), they have decided not to do them. I know it's usually the bride's family that takes care of this anyway, and I'm worried that it will look bad on our family if we don't provide them since they seem to be what is standard nowadays. Any thoughts??