June 2012 Weddings

Therapy Thursday 4/26

«1

Re: Therapy Thursday 4/26

  • 2 months and starting to get overwhelmed with everything. lol

    First Look
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic
    Daisypath Anniversary tickers
  • Is it 06.30.12 yet? I am sick of waiting.....
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Still very much wishing I could tell a few coworkers where they can stick it
    image
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_therapy-thursday-426?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:e2c71d40-3e80-4855-92e4-e0415920200aPost:185b9a27-9f90-4ccc-b3f1-bc646017b18a">Re: Therapy Thursday 4/26</a>:
    [QUOTE]Is it 06.30.12 yet? I am sick of waiting.....
    Posted by chelseakopperud[/QUOTE]

    This! I was telling my roommate last night that it will be SO awesome when it's June...but then we still have a whole month to go! Ugh!
    A+K
    image
    "Be who God meant you to be and you will set the world on fire."
    --St. Catherine of Siena
  • This is more of an irrational irritation and worry but I'll put it here. Tuesday I went over to Matt's apartment to unpack and put away shower gifts where I want them because he's awesome. My mom sent me a text that her and dad were going to the gym, then another when they got home. Umm...okay thanks? I just don't want it to be like that once we're married.

    I feel like a jerk saying this, but why should I care when you go to the gym?
  • I WANT MY CAR BACK
  • I spent hours putting our invitations together, only to come home last night and find the glue didn't stick and they're falling apart! I'm supposed to send them out tomorrow!

    Wedding Countdown Ticker
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_therapy-thursday-426?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:e2c71d40-3e80-4855-92e4-e0415920200aPost:976b0053-390c-4603-9e41-b0cccbb7212f">Re: Therapy Thursday 4/26</a>:
    [QUOTE]I spent hours putting our invitations together, only to come home last night and find the glue didn't stick and they're falling apart! I'm supposed to send them out tomorrow!
    Posted by ncd5015[/QUOTE]

    Oh no! Is it paper on paper that you were gluing together? If so, I suggest scrapbook tape.
  • -I've been wearing a stupid boot on my foot for 5 weeks and it has not even started to heal the least bit. I have an appt with the specialist on Monday. I think I may break down and cry if he says I'll need to wear this for the wedding. I can't dance with it on or anything :(

    -FI's been in a pissy mood lately and he needs to stop bitching about $hit to me. Alright already. I've heard the damn conversation 10 times from you.

    -FI's kids are being little "brats" with attitudes that I'm just not going to deal with. I don't get an attitude from my own son, I'm not going to put up with it from them.
    Wedding Countdown Ticker
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic
    June 2012 May Siggy Challenge: The invitations
    image 126 Are ready to party!
  • Oh gosh ncd, I'm sorry! I agree w/ Midge. Try scrapbook glue/tape/squares
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_therapy-thursday-426?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:e2c71d40-3e80-4855-92e4-e0415920200aPost:44ed8b6e-308b-4071-a913-6b3c90c5a4e3">Re: Therapy Thursday 4/26</a>:
    [QUOTE]This is more of an irrational irritation and worry but I'll put it here. Tuesday I went over to Matt's apartment to unpack and put away shower gifts where I want them because he's awesome. My mom sent me a text that her and dad were going to the gym, then another when they got home. Umm...okay thanks? I just don't want it to be like that once we're married. I feel like a jerk saying this, but why should I care when you go to the gym?
    Posted by midgetthemighty[/QUOTE]

    Jess- My mom does this to me sometimes too... I think she just gets bored maybe or its just her way of saying hi? I dont know.... I get annnoyed sometimes, but what I have started doing (not just for that reason either). is I put my phone on the counter when I get home and I dont check it until I go to bed. My mom has taken the hint (again not in a bad way) and doesnt expect a text right back anymore. If its somethign important she knows to call me.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • ncd5015ncd5015 member
    Fourth Anniversary 500 Comments
    edited April 2012
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_therapy-thursday-426?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:e2c71d40-3e80-4855-92e4-e0415920200aPost:7a5ff022-b66e-4157-87c5-fc85fa6886c5">Re: Therapy Thursday 4/26</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Therapy Thursday 4/26 : Oh no! Is it paper on paper that you were gluing together? If so, I suggest scrapbook tape.
    Posted by midgetthemighty[/QUOTE]

    I did use scrapbook tape :( I wondered if the light I was working under was too hot

    ETA: Not sure if that would make a difference though. Any other suggestions?

    Wedding Countdown Ticker
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_therapy-thursday-426?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:e2c71d40-3e80-4855-92e4-e0415920200aPost:1ab9e356-a110-406b-9206-a4929fcb0468">Re: Therapy Thursday 4/26</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Therapy Thursday 4/26 : This! I was telling my roommate last night that it will be SO awesome when it's June...but then we still have a whole month to go! Ugh!
    Posted by AlliJae[/QUOTE]

    I keep thinking that too... we arent even to the 2 month mark yet and the June 1st and 2nd brides are almost to their 1 month mark! Me=jealous! But really, once we get to June 1st, my schedule gets CRAZY busy so I think the month will totally FLY by!
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_therapy-thursday-426?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:e2c71d40-3e80-4855-92e4-e0415920200aPost:7041070e-ac50-48a0-81ae-2686b7f2f718">Re: Therapy Thursday 4/26</a>:
    [QUOTE]Still very much wishing I could tell a few coworkers where they can stick it
    Posted by Tiffany6912[/QUOTE]

    Can I just say, I think we're working at the same place???????
    Vacation White Knot
  • I don't want to be at work today.  I love my job as a Title I Math Coach, but just don't want to do it today. Part of it is spring fever...too nice to sit in a building most of the day.  I took yesterday off to go get my dress back and do some wedding shopping.   We've only got 19 more days of school then I have a week and a half off before the summer school starts.  It's only from 8-12 and can be really fun.  Today I just keep thinking of all the wedding things I could be doing or how I could be cleaning out the room for FI's office and getting ready to paint it. :(  We are too close to the end of the year for me to feel comfortalbe taking any more days off.  Plus, ISTEP starts next week and we are in the testing window for the other tests I help with.
  • Good idea Chelsea. Hopefully she won't get mad when I don't respond.

    Ncd - Glue dots!
  • There are a few residents here that need to put on their big girl panties and deal with it. I can't stand all the complaining...it is so annoying. Shut up and do your job. What is being asked is not that big of deal...just do it.
    Cappadocia, Turkey
    June 2012 March Siggy Challenge: Honeymoon location
    imageWedding Countdown Ticker
    image 215 Invited so far!
    image 160 Are ready to party!
    image 30 Will be missing out!
    image 25 Are MIA!
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_therapy-thursday-426?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:e2c71d40-3e80-4855-92e4-e0415920200aPost:44ed8b6e-308b-4071-a913-6b3c90c5a4e3">Re: Therapy Thursday 4/26</a>:
    [QUOTE]This is more of an irrational irritation and worry but I'll put it here. Tuesday I went over to Matt's apartment to unpack and put away shower gifts where I want them because he's awesome. My mom sent me a text that her and dad were going to the gym, then another when they got home. Umm...okay thanks? I just don't want it to be like that once we're married. I feel like a jerk saying this, but why should I care when you go to the gym?
    Posted by midgetthemighty[/QUOTE]
    Yeaaa, my mom does this too.  Sometimes she'll call me at work to tell me where she is going.  "Dad and I are going to see a movie now, we should be home around 2."

    Like Chelsea, if it is a text, I don't answer it for a while.  When it is a call like that though, I usually start with "Hey, I'm pretty busy, what's up?"  (Which probably makes me sound like an uber jerk, but she would keep me on the phone the whole way to the theater otherwise! Ma, I'm workin here!)
    image
  • This is me now. Realizing that May 1st is next week and my calendar goes bazurk after that! June 2nd is right around the corner and I'm definitely hitting the panic buttons! But secretly, I'll be glad when it's here and I have a new husband :)

    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_therapy-thursday-426?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:e2c71d40-3e80-4855-92e4-e0415920200aPost:fba6e1d7-72ac-4b0b-9cfc-def1ff8f38b6">Re: Therapy Thursday 4/26</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Therapy Thursday 4/26 : I keep thinking that too... we arent even to the 2 month mark yet and the June 1st and 2nd brides are almost to their 1 month mark! Me=jealous! <strong>But really, once we get to June 1st, my schedule gets CRAZY busy so I think the month will totally FLY by!
    </strong>Posted by chelseakopperud[/QUOTE]
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_therapy-thursday-426?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:e2c71d40-3e80-4855-92e4-e0415920200aPost:1e668bb3-922b-4d66-961b-3106f329e979">Re: Therapy Thursday 4/26</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Therapy Thursday 4/26 : Can I just say, I think we're working at the same place???????
    Posted by melntaitt[/QUOTE]
    That, or the a-holes are EVERYWHERE!!!!

    Yesterday, one of my coworkers told me about her friend that lost it at his job.  He kept getting written up for BS that everyone else got away with, so he started looking for another job and put in his two weeks.  A day after giving his notice, the boss called him in to write him up for something that didn't actually happen.  He told the boss, the secretary, all the workers in the warehouse and all the workers sitting around outside where to shove it.  Threw his hard hat across the warehouse and drove off!
    image
  • Tiffany, my mom is notorious for those kinds of calls as well. Normally only when I was at home before my full time job. So at least she doesn't call me here for that. Too much.
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_therapy-thursday-426?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:e2c71d40-3e80-4855-92e4-e0415920200aPost:94b1de74-1824-4cf4-b459-8aa1ff844114">Re: Therapy Thursday 4/26</a>:
    [QUOTE]Good idea Chelsea. Hopefully she won't get mad when I don't respond. <strong>Ncd - Glue dots!</strong>
    Posted by midgetthemighty[/QUOTE]
    I love those things!<div>
    </div><div>I'm feeling happy today, minus all the website work I'm in the midst of doing at work, so I'm just going to give everyone a big giant hug through my computer. **HUGS**</div>
  • I'm tired of people adding kids or guests! If the invite is just addressed to you or you and your husband that means no kids or no plus one! Also we now have less than one week til rsvps are due so get them in!
  • I had my first breakdown yesterday in regards to family members.  My cousin texted me and asked if her kids could come to the shower.  I said that was fine.  I guess I should have told my sister and mom and because they were all upset that she was.  I didn't know they didn't want children there?!?  So my mom's upset because didn't know I ok'd it plus she doesn't like this cousin because she's not very responsible with her children-so there's that.  I was trying to talk to her about invites and she's all sour and of course, I don't know why.  Whew's it's over now but it feels good to vent!
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_therapy-thursday-426?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:e2c71d40-3e80-4855-92e4-e0415920200aPost:3896c199-2dd2-49ec-847b-bdd2b5cc24bb">Re: Therapy Thursday 4/26</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Therapy Thursday 4/26 : That, or the a-holes are EVERYWHERE!!!! Yesterday, one of my coworkers told me about her friend that lost it at his job.  He kept getting written up for BS that everyone else got away with, so he started looking for another job and put in his two weeks.  A day after giving his notice, the boss called him in to write him up for something that didn't actually happen.  He told the boss, the secretary, all the workers in the warehouse and all the workers sitting around outside where to shove it.  Threw his hard hat across the warehouse and drove off!
    Posted by Tiffany6912[/QUOTE]

    I took a few days off because I could feel myself getting to that point. My job is to coordinate rehab services; I'm not the secretary, the nurse, the mean mom or guidance counselor. Instead, I have to be all those things along with the chauffeur and dayhab tech.

    Oh and on top of all that, I had to report the secretary for her 2 1/2 hour long lunch breaks - not usually something I would do or care about except she was telling my supervisors that I was supposed to be covering the phones for her. Only, she never asked - according to her, it was implied since I usually cover her breaks - yeah from 12 - 12:30 not 2:30!

    So now, she's tracking my whereabouts; it's real mature over here. I can't complain though - I get paid for 40 hours but I usually clock 45-60; maybe this will convince my supervisor I need to work less :)
    Vacation White Knot
  • renovations NEED to happen on our place because this is month 3 of paying a mortgage and not living there. helloo building dept.. get your sh t together.

    someone thinks their adult daughter is invited to the wedding and i'm too much of a pansy to say she's not.

    my skin looks like crap.. i need a tan

    i have no clue how to use the knot or add photos or make signatures.. or an avatar and i'm a pretty internet savvy chick. lol
  • I'm getting really fed up with being the "manager" of this wedding. Right now FI is only working 3 days a week, and next week is his last week of work. We have to write our entire ceremony, and yet I am the only one who has looked up samples, I started Google docs with suggested vows, etc and yet he hasn't even looked at them! He hasn't talked to the family members he wants to include in the ceremony because he wants to have their parts ready when he talks to them. WELL THEN WRITE THEIR DAMN PARTS! This isn't something like the table numbers that we can half ass at the end-this is the most important part of the day! 
    image
  • My brother's teen homeschooling group has apparently decided to hold a small "graduation" ceremony the afternoon of my wedding.  My mother called me the other day to demand I send her my timeline for the wedding because she needs to know if he can go - because he's also one of the GMs, and if he does go they might not make it back in time for photos before the ceremony.

    The problem is that a) I would love to attend my little brother's graduation ceremony, and now I definitely can't even if he does participate, and b) my mother is now making this MY problem.  Meaning that, if I request that my family be there early for photos and getting ready, she'll paint me as the bad guy - or worse, start telling everyone what a horrific bridezilla I am for refusing to allow my brother to graduate.

    And to top it off, he doesn't even want to go to it in the first place!
    Mrs. Abbe Peanut Butter || Planning Bio
    June 2012 February Signature: Favorite picture of you & FI
  • edited April 2012
    Oh I need this today... working with a sloppy stationary co.  Its a private local business and I am exhausted of fixing proof after proof with sloppy errors.  In one instance I asked 5 times to fix the month we are getting married and she would assure next proof would be right and sure enough they never were.  Finally picked up completed invitations last night only to find errors in guest addresses - I abbreviated states and when they wrote them in long form botched them all up. Any abbreviation beginning with I was typed as Illionois.........so resending envelopes to printing. 
    Cannot get the musicians to call be back - I have been following up once a week for the past 5 weeks and they always take my number (i have seen them do it) and assure they will call in the next two days to scheudle a time to go over music - they have never called me back. 
    My fiance spends alot of time looking at old vehicles on his Ipad or watching baseball but when I ask him to help with wedding stuff, let tell the grooms man about tuxes or round up addresses or look over readings for the ceremony  he tells me he has a life and is stressed form work and doesn't have time...
    So tired of trying to get people to do what they need to do...
    Sorry this is long - uggg I feel better
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • I AM FINISHED SCHOOL FOR 5 MONTHS!  YAY!!

    Aside from that, my only vent is about my mom's dress.  When we went to get her measured for it, they said they had to order the dress according to her biggest measurement.  Trouble is, her biggest measurement is her hips and the dress is quite flowy around the hips (meaning there is lots of room!)  So now the dress is super huge on her and will need extensive alterations.  They were insistant that we get that size even though we kept telling them it would be too big.  So we are just really pissed off that we paid about $300 for the dress and now we are going to have to pay a fortune to get it altered!!!!

    June 2012 August Siggy Challenge: Favourite Pro Pic (I couldn't choose just one!)
    imageDaisypath Vacation tickers Daisypath Vacation tickers Follow Me on Pinterest
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards