FFF Anyone?

thelamarrs · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:2bf6f2ab-2ce4-47c8-ab5c-2b2b66ccedc9">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : Oh my gosh YES!!! Sh!tl like this EVERY GD TIME!!
Posted by audrewuh[/QUOTE]

<div>Also her posts are private. Boo.</div>

Elle1036 · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:3fa24225-b55f-4075-a770-e219bdd2c6c4">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]I flame Elle for making me care about how many punctuation marks follow a sentence. Example: I'm so excited!!!!
Posted by audrewuh[/QUOTE]

Sweet. Now I feel like I've actually accomplished something today. Can I go home now?

thelamarrs · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:38a05036-9758-4a15-81a8-4c8c9ca07ee9">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : Sweet. Now I feel like I've actually accomplished something today. Can I go home now?
Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

<div>Yes. And here's a bonus for all of your hard work. </div>

audrewuh · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:38a05036-9758-4a15-81a8-4c8c9ca07ee9">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : Sweet. Now I feel like I've actually accomplished something today. Can I go home now?
Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

<div>Yes please. </div><div>
</div><div>But only if home is Houston. I'm a little upset we didn't get to have one last drink together. :(</div>

Elle1036 · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:2ca23649-28dc-47c6-a61f-b180991b4d89">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : Yes please. But only if home is Houston. I'm a little upset we didn't get to have one last drink together. :(
Posted by audrewuh[/QUOTE]

Yeah. I was really sad when I got your text on Wednesday. I was tempted to tell H "TURN AROUND RIGHT NOW."

I expect that I'll be back in July at some point. Details soon.

audrewuh · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:f763a767-e3e9-4458-a58e-b2a85588ed42">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : Yeah. I was really sad when I got your text on Wednesday. I was tempted to tell <strong>H</strong> "TURN AROUND RIGHT NOW." I expect that I'll be back in July at some point. Details soon.
Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

<div>SQUEE! </div><div>
</div><div>He likes me. At least, he likes FI, I think. </div><div>
</div><div>You'll have to give me super heads up. I'm in 18 different places in July. I'll need a drink. </div>

Elle1036 · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:4d43c0b9-7c35-4869-b098-f36095e376ea">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : SQUEE! He likes me. At least, he likes FI, I think. You'll have to give me super heads up. I'm in 18 different places in July. I'll need a drink.
Posted by audrewuh[/QUOTE]

I will give you a heads-up as soon as I know for sure.

And H likes both you AND your FI. A lot.

I also am sort of in love with your FI (and you, too, but you knew that already).

Even my mom I think got a little crush on your FI at the reception. Boy can dance.

audrewuh · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:22fc8181-b794-4025-8f26-3d9394702c3d">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : I will give you a heads-up as soon as I know for sure. And H likes both you AND your FI. A lot. I also am sort of in love with your FI (and you, too, but you knew that already). Even my mom I think got a little crush on your FI at the reception. Boy can dance.
Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

<div>Right? And HE didn't fall out of his high heel shoe in the middle of the conga line and have an old lady trip over him. </div><div>
</div><div>WTF guys, this is the worst FFF ever. </div><div>
</div><div>FreeSpirit needs to come and GBCK. </div>

Elle1036 · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:2f959b9e-8c58-474c-9747-953782e62e45">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : Right? And HE didn't fall out of his high heel shoe in the middle of the conga line and have an old lady trip over him. WTF guys, this is the worst FFF ever. FreeSpirit needs to come and GBCK.
Posted by audrewuh[/QUOTE]

OMG I missed that! Who tripped over you?

And... that conga line... was that not the most ridiculous thing ever? I have no clue who started it or even when... I was just talking to somebody and saw a train of people go by and had to jump in instantly.

bethsmiles · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:2f959b9e-8c58-474c-9747-953782e62e45">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : Right? And HE didn't fall out of his high heel shoe in the middle of the conga line and have an old lady trip over him. <strong>WTF guys, this is the worst FFF ever. </strong>FreeSpirit needs to come and GBCK.
Posted by audrewuh[/QUOTE]

Truth. I was hoping I would have something entertaining to read when I came back from lunch. No such luck though. I think the board has been too dead lately for anyone to have any good flames.

audrewuh · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:8041cc92-0e1f-4253-b8a4-9d76022088a2">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : OMG I missed that! Who tripped over you? And... that conga line... was that not the most ridiculous thing ever? I have no clue who started it or even when... I was just talking to somebody and saw a train of people go by and had to jump in instantly.
Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

<div>I saw it get started, but I couldn't remember who.</div><div>
</div><div>It was someon'e grandma? She wasn't yours or H's, but she was an elderly woman. The look of shock on her face was priceless. I literally went head over heels. It was awful. And I thought I broke my toe. </div>

jorja86 · June 2012

I flame everyone who references inside jokes, GChat, Facebook or texting each other here on the board. Of course, real friendships have formed as a result of this board (and I'm lucky enough to feel that I'm able to include myself in this) and that's great...but I find it potentially hurtful and unnecessarily exclusionary to bring it up repeatedly in front of people (who are a part of the larger community we all connected through) instead of contributing to the topic at hand.

audrewuh · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:8c1be5ae-f8c6-45ae-8836-75d56be8152a">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : Truth. I was hoping I would have something entertaining to read when I came back from lunch. No such luck though. I think the board has been too dead lately for anyone to have any good flames.
Posted by bethsmiles[/QUOTE]

<div>I had a great flame. The flamed has not come to see it. </div>

Elle1036 · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:8213d261-6e59-40a9-b3d3-5f715896eb07">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : I saw it get started, but I couldn't remember who. <strong>It was someon'e grandma? She wasn't yours or H's, but she was an elderly woman. The look of shock on her face was priceless. I literally went head over heels. It was awful. And I thought I broke my toe.
</strong>Posted by audrewuh[/QUOTE]

This just solidifies it... nobody can throw a party like I can.

audrewuh · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:34a005cd-72a5-4c05-be39-5032882b7917">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]I flame everyone who references inside jokes, GChat, Facebook or texting each other here on the board. Of course, real friendships have formed as a result of this board (and I'm lucky enough to feel that I'm able to include myself in this) and that's great...but I find it potentially hurtful and unnecessarily exclusionary to bring it up repeatedly in front of people (who are a part of the larger community we all connected though) instead of contributing to the topic at hand.
Posted by jorja86[/QUOTE]

<div>I can see that. Sorry if I've contributed. </div><div>
</div><div>ETA: I have a feeling my convo with Elle brought this up. </div>

Swazzle · June 2012

These were some of my favorites from <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_new-here-14" target="_blank">THIS</a> thread: <div>
</div><div>In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_new-here-14?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:bd5f5c6e-d402-4c7f-94c3-711cc62a6960Post:2e606abd-554a-4998-8dbe-7f1a00fbd734">Re: New here</a>:
[QUOTE]We're welcoming a new person not fighting like a group of juvenile groupies lol, OP, please tell us more about yourself, =)
Posted by FreeSpirit666[/QUOTE]</div><div>
</div><div>In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_new-here-14?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:bd5f5c6e-d402-4c7f-94c3-711cc62a6960Post:b9b24ca8-4694-47ee-9268-d48a3342963c">Re: New here</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: New here : We prob scared her off now..... another one bites the dust lol!!!
Posted by FreeSpirit666[/QUOTE] </div>

LaSak87 · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:34a005cd-72a5-4c05-be39-5032882b7917">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]I flame everyone who references inside jokes, GChat, Facebook or texting each other here on the board. Of course, real friendships have formed as a result of this board (and I'm lucky enough to feel that I'm able to include myself in this) and that's great...but I find it potentially hurtful and unnecessarily exclusionary to bring it up repeatedly in front of people (who are a part of the larger community we all connected through) instead of contributing to the topic at hand.
Posted by jorja86[/QUOTE]
Remember that one time that I texted you from the toilet at 3:00 this morning?

bethsmiles · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:0996a498-48e7-43f7-bf9d-de23c8f59d69">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : I had a great flame. The flamed has not come to see it.
Posted by audrewuh[/QUOTE]

That's true. It's no fun if they don't come back though.

Elle1036 · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:34a005cd-72a5-4c05-be39-5032882b7917">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]I flame everyone who references inside jokes, GChat, Facebook or texting each other here on the board. Of course, real friendships have formed as a result of this board (and I'm lucky enough to feel that I'm able to include myself in this) and that's great...but I find it potentially hurtful and unnecessarily exclusionary to bring it up repeatedly in front of people (who are a part of the larger community we all connected through) instead of contributing to the topic at hand.
Posted by jorja86[/QUOTE]

Jorja, I can see why you feel that way, but I kind of feel like that's a slippery slope, so to speak. Where do you draw the line? Should we also no longer make jokes that reference things that happened on the board a long time ago, since newer posters may feel excluded?

jorja86 · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:f14c302e-6bb9-4b99-b383-60d1210ba11e">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : Jorja, I can see why you feel that way, but I kind of feel like that's a slippery slope, so to speak. Where do you draw the line? Should we also no longer make jokes that reference things that happened on the board a long time ago, since newer posters may feel excluded?
Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

<div>I mean, I feel like there's a huge difference between making a joke that's part of "board lore" and spending half a page making refernces about your wedding or joking about something that happened on facebook. </div><div>
</div>

jorja86 · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:9edadbb6-0d1c-4f73-881c-8cffa73d8d76">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : Remember that one time that I texted you from the toilet at 3:00 this morning?
Posted by LaSak87[/QUOTE]

<div>Oh My God, you WIN. </div>

thelamarrs · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:78d018f0-065a-4596-a5e1-db113e7fcc63">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : I mean, I feel like there's a huge difference between making a joke that's part of "board lore" and spending half a page making refernces about your wedding or joking about something that happened on facebook.
Posted by jorja86[/QUOTE]

<div>As someone who isn't apart of the texting/FB/Gchat I can say it doesn't bother me. </div><div>
</div><div>It makes me happy that a lot of the ladies on this board are so connected and truly are friends, and I hope that one day I can be a part of that.</div><div>
</div><div>The quirks and jokes are things that make the board funny and the closeness of the regs are what seems to pull a lot of lurkers in and start posting. I might not get the jokes, but I enjoy the happy and funny feel of the board because of the jokes and friendliness. </div>

flygirlmeg · June 2012

Damn. I've been racking my brain trying to come up with some flames. I suck at FFF.

Um, back to housework I suppose. I'll continue to marinate on FFF.

LaSak87 · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:09ca59db-6b36-482d-8777-6a85c9b43e1e">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : Oh My God, you WIN.
Posted by jorja86[/QUOTE]
That was the highlight of my early-morning haha

Elle1036 · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:78d018f0-065a-4596-a5e1-db113e7fcc63">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : I mean, I feel like there's a huge difference between making a joke that's part of "board lore" and spending half a page making refernces about your wedding or joking about something that happened on facebook.
Posted by jorja86[/QUOTE]

So... like... if you were part of a big group of friends who got together on a regular basis, would you be annoyed if some people talked about things they had done together outside of the group gatherings?

jorja86 · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:6fca63d9-8d3f-437f-8042-50c2f91983d9">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : Yeah, and I guess we shouldn't talk about meetups then either.
Posted by hellotarra[/QUOTE]

<div>Well, yeah. I think it would be kind of AWish, if every time I had a glass of wine with Lauren, I came into a post on here and made a point of talking about how Lauren and I were TOGETHER, because we're COOL enough to talk to/hang out with other people on the boards IRL. </div><div>
</div><div>I'm not saying, (not do I feel that I implied) that it's an intentional thing. Just pointing out that the repeated inside jokes/obvious references to things that happened away from this board have the potential to be hurtful to those that are not yet close enough to the group to have these kinds of interactions. Also, they may, in fact, discourage newer people from trying to become part of the group, since that kind of stuff makes it seem pretty tight knit and closed off. </div>

jorja86 · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:3a5a75bd-3b79-4e71-a3b7-434c0b603bbd">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : So... like... if you were part of a big group of friends who got together on a regular basis, would you be annoyed if some people talked about things they had done together outside of the group gatherings?
Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

<div>If it was all they talked about for a good 10 minutes, and there were people present who had no idea WTF they were even referring to...yes.</div><div>
</div><div>ETA: For example, if you were with a group of friends, some who had been invited to your wedding, and some who had not, I would find it rude to talk for an extended period of time, about the wedding in front of people who were not invited. </div>

Elle1036 · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:c1ef02a4-3a58-412c-9f42-88cf241046e3">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : If it was all they talked about for a good 10 minutes, and there were people present who had no idea WTF they were even referring to...yes.
Posted by jorja86[/QUOTE]

I guess that's where we differ. I would be happy to turn to someone else and have a separate conversation.

I mean, I get what you're saying. Ideally, the board would be the board, FB would be FB, etc. But, just like social circles IRL, things are going to overlap. Conversations are going to crop up where they crop up. It's not intended to hurt anyone, and I think it's a bit of an overreaction to view it that way.

audrewuh · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:953c5fec-5103-43f2-bdc0-0edfb85522be">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : I guess that's where we differ. I would be happy to turn to someone else and have a separate conversation. I mean, I get what you're saying. Ideally, the board would be the board, FB would be FB, etc. But, just like social circles IRL, things are going to overlap. Conversations are going to crop up where they crop up. It's not intended to hurt anyone, and <strong>I think it's a bit of an overreaction to view it that way</strong>.
Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

<div>I can understand how it may hurt some people's feelings and that's fine, so I agree with both sides. I do think conversations will pop up and it happens all the time no matter what setting your in. Everyone can either wait for the convo to end or keep the original topic going. See how others are still talking around Sak's poop story? Kinda like that. </div><div>
</div><div>
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jorja86 · June 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_fff-anyone?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:4fa7d8df-1ff0-49a8-9c28-993cab4d056bPost:953c5fec-5103-43f2-bdc0-0edfb85522be">Re: FFF Anyone?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF Anyone? : I guess that's where we differ. I would be happy to turn to someone else and have a separate conversation. I mean, I get what you're saying. Ideally, the board would be the board, FB would be FB, etc. But, just like social circles IRL, things are going to overlap. Conversations are going to crop up where they crop up. It's not intended to hurt anyone, and I think it's a bit of an overreaction to view it that way.
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</div><div>But, "turning to someone else and having a seperate conversation" would be, in my mind, you and Aud texting each other or whatever...not having this conversation on the board. That was kind of my point.

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