Hey everyone I am keeping my original engagement ring. It’s my ring and I love it with all my heart. After thinking about this I came to the conclusion that I was only asking for a bigger ring to impress my family. I over think everything and thought that they wouldn’t expect my engagement if my ring wasn’t bigger. As for everyone talking about our finances honestly it’s non of your business. We are paying my ring off when the first payment is due.
That is our choice not yours so I don’t wanna hear oh your in debt. The only debt we have is a dentist bill which is mine and I am paying that off. I seen a lot of suggestions that maybe you should build your credit by car loans & real credit cards. It’s really hard to do that when someone ran your credit into the ground and they won’t approve you for a loan or credit cards. We are working on getting the fraudulent accounts closed out so we don’t have to worry about it and his credit will return to normal.
When it comes to my age and maturity you all have no idea I love a quote this “Don’t judge my path unless you have walked my journey” You all have no idea what I have been through in the past 7 years. I lost my teenage years because my mom was diagnosed with cancer and I had to pick her responsibilities around the house. I never got to go out and have fun and party so I feel into the role of taking care of people. You don’t honestly know me & I don’t you so don’t judge me. I choose to work part time and take care of my fiancé it was how I was raised. My family was very traditional in the way that a women should stay home most of the time and take care of her family while the man went out and worked. I am not saying working and going to school is wrong but, it is how I choose to live my life. We have more than enough money to live on and pay bills on time in full. We still get to go out and have fun and buy the things we want.