When did you lose it!

xweddingbutterflyx · March 2012

Almost 22 and still a virgin

swhite2012 · March 2012

18. Freshman year of college.

[Deleted User] · March 2012

I was a month shy of 25, on my wedding night.

loves2shop4shoes · March 2012

15. Sophomore year of HS.

tdwpg1984 · March 2012

I was 15. And I regret it. Well more I regret who I did it with, not so much that I did it.

GoldenPenguin · March 2012

15. Summer between freshman & sophomore years of HS.

motoLyn · March 2012

I was 18 and freshman in college. Oh the years after that were just..... adventurous....? Hahaha. I am a monogamous kind of gal but in between long term relationships there were times when it was like going on a binge.

loves2shop4shoes · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_when-did-you-lose-it?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:797ab5e0-9b16-42cd-9de4-636794f563c9Post:0c9a4dfe-6f5c-48f9-84df-9d94823d2763">Re: When did you lose it!</a>:
[QUOTE]Pretty sure I'm too embarassed to answer. Let's just say too young!
Posted by polo1425[/QUOTE]

Oh come on Polo! We told!

swhite2012 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_when-did-you-lose-it?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:797ab5e0-9b16-42cd-9de4-636794f563c9Post:0c9a4dfe-6f5c-48f9-84df-9d94823d2763">Re: When did you lose it!</a>:
[QUOTE]Pretty sure I'm too embarassed to answer. Let's just say too young!
Posted by polo1425[/QUOTE]

<div>Well now you have to tell us. You can't peak our interest like that then not spill!</div>

Swazzle · March 2012

I had JUST turned 16 (summer between sophomore & junior year of high school).

elannis · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_when-did-you-lose-it?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:797ab5e0-9b16-42cd-9de4-636794f563c9Post:872c81ed-ba21-4cfa-9e99-da5a84a46778">Re: When did you lose it!</a>:
[QUOTE]18. Freshman year of college.
Posted by swhite2012[/QUOTE]

Same.

doubleSS07 · March 2012

I was 18 and a freshman in college

DanieKA · March 2012

19 and sophomore in college. I haven't thought about him in years! He wasn't relationship material, but so, so dreamy...mmm....dreamy! Good times.

helloblueeyes · March 2012

I was 14. But i had sex with a girl at 13. So really depending on how you want to look at it 13 or 14. But no matter which one you choose it was still way too young.

Here is the bigger shocker though, he was 21. But there is a whole messed up back story to it all.

loves2shop4shoes · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_when-did-you-lose-it?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:797ab5e0-9b16-42cd-9de4-636794f563c9Post:a670d776-a947-4517-b2f6-43023d9ebf7f">Re: When did you lose it!</a>:
[QUOTE]I was 14. But i had sex with a girl at 13. So really depending on how you want to look at it 13 or 14. But no matter which one you choose it was still way too young. Here is the bigger shocker though, he was 21. But there is a whole messed up back story to it all.
Posted by helloblueeyes[/QUOTE]

How did you even know HOW to have sex with a girl at 13? I wouldn't have had any idea what went where!

Stina51286 · March 2012

16 sophmore yr, looking back my parents thought I was a goody goody, little did they know!

beanbot2002 · March 2012

I had just turned 16 about a month before I lost it. We had only been together a couple months. I had been 'trying' to lose it since freshman year/14 yrs old...but I chickened out each time. Proabably a good thing, though.

IrishDreamer · March 2012

18. Was my Ex-H.

God that was an effed up year....

cu97tiger · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_when-did-you-lose-it?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:797ab5e0-9b16-42cd-9de4-636794f563c9Post:a670d776-a947-4517-b2f6-43023d9ebf7f">Re: When did you lose it!</a>:
[QUOTE]I was 14. But i had sex with a girl at 13. So really depending on how you want to look at it 13 or 14. But no matter which one you choose it was still way too young. Here is the bigger shocker though, he was 21. But there is a whole messed up back story to it all.
Posted by helloblueeyes[/QUOTE]

<div>How the heck do you qualify sex with a girl? I mean, does a sex toy need to be involved? I'm totally confused.</div><div>
</div><div>I was 19 and a sophomore in college. I, like Moto, went on some binges when I wasn't in a monogamous relationship...</div>

IrishDreamer · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_when-did-you-lose-it?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:797ab5e0-9b16-42cd-9de4-636794f563c9Post:7ee1006d-0f0d-4100-96a1-cb16f7cfac66">Re: When did you lose it!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: When did you lose it! : How the heck do you qualify sex with a girl? I mean, does a sex toy need to be involved? I'm totally confused. I was 19 and a sophomore in college. I, like Moto, went on some binges when I wasn't in a monogamous relationship...
Posted by cu97tiger[/QUOTE]

I'm glad I wasn't the only one confused...I thought my feeling like crap was creeping into my brain lol

helloblueeyes · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_when-did-you-lose-it?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:797ab5e0-9b16-42cd-9de4-636794f563c9Post:97b980ae-81a6-4aef-8875-5f9058b298fb">Re: When did you lose it!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: When did you lose it! : How did you even know HOW to have sex with a girl at 13? I wouldn't have had any idea what went where!
Posted by loves2shop4shoes[/QUOTE]

My mom wanted to make sure we knew all about reproductive anatomy and how things worked, so i had a fairly good concept of what does what. Add that to a clinically depressed teenager with access to MTV (when they where playing that late night soft core porn show) and unsupervised access to the internet

. I was all sorts of crazy messed up as a teen. And no one noticed. It took several very bad bad things to really bring it to attention. And even now i still don't know if my parents have any idea how things really were.

swhite2012 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_when-did-you-lose-it?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:797ab5e0-9b16-42cd-9de4-636794f563c9Post:b48626c5-c9cd-4192-aa64-b79d5c306a79">Re: When did you lose it!</a>:
[QUOTE]16. I was only dating exBF for less than 2 months. Apparently waiting wasn't really my thing. Not much has changed.
Posted by yaga13[/QUOTE]

<div>The only reason I waited as long as I did was because my two serious ex's didn't want to. The first was really religious and the other just had intimacy issues or something. Needless to say by the time I met FI, I was more than ready to go. We did it before we were serious or anything. </div>

helloblueeyes · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_when-did-you-lose-it?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:797ab5e0-9b16-42cd-9de4-636794f563c9Post:7ee1006d-0f0d-4100-96a1-cb16f7cfac66">Re: When did you lose it!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: When did you lose it! : How the heck do you qualify sex with a girl? I mean, does a sex toy need to be involved? I'm totally confused. I was 19 and a sophomore in college. I, like Moto, went on some binges when I wasn't in a monogamous relationship...
Posted by cu97tiger[/QUOTE]

Not really sure how to phrase an answer but I'll try.

I'm Bi, so i have had sex with woman before. Since being in a adult sexual relationship with a female i know that what i did at 13 was the same thing i did at 20 (except with a bit more experience). I know how sex between 2 women goes and that's what it was, it's my experience that makes me count it. (and maybe because i'm Bi)

I think of it this way, if i was a lesbian and never had sex with a man but still had sex with woman, i'm not sure i could count myself as a virgin.

Does that make any sense?

swhite2012 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_when-did-you-lose-it?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:797ab5e0-9b16-42cd-9de4-636794f563c9Post:c29be1f1-b747-4bdb-9466-8156162f26d0">Re: When did you lose it!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: When did you lose it! : Not really sure how to phrase an answer but I'll try. I'm Bi, so i have had sex with woman before. Since being in a adult sexual relationship with a female i know that what i did at 13 was the same thing i did at 20 (except with a bit more experience). I know how sex between 2 women goes and that's what it was, it's my experience that makes me count it. (and maybe because i'm Bi) I think of it this way, if i was a lesbian and never had sex with a man but still had sex with woman, i'm not sure i could count myself as a virgin. <strong>Does that make any sense?</strong>
Posted by helloblueeyes[/QUOTE]

<div>Yes. I get what you're saying.</div>

GoldenPenguin · March 2012

All I can think of is the scene in Chasing Amy when she's explaining lesbian sex to Ben Affleck...

leia1979 · March 2012

18. Senior in high school. I wish I hadn't. I think that relationship permanently messed me up. He was 28.

SKP82 · March 2012

I was 17 and a senior in HS.

tuarceatha · March 2012

17 with my high school sweetheart

Good times.

lunarsongbird · March 2012

19. We were both virgins and had been together for 2 years. He was 22. He was also my date to Senior Prom. I needed to get signed permission, since he was over 21.

Sometimes looking back on it makes me think sex is weird. :P

However...I didn't break my hymen until I was with the next guy...(Yes, he was that small).

KikiNcupcakes · March 2012

I'm almost 19, but I haven't and don't want to do it until I'm married

SKP82 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_when-did-you-lose-it?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:797ab5e0-9b16-42cd-9de4-636794f563c9Post:6de0f9a0-3f50-4d20-b727-d1fb0fb8d917">Re: When did you lose it!</a>:
[QUOTE]19. We were both virgins and had been together for 2 years. He was 22. He was also my date to Senior Prom. I needed to get signed permission, since he was over 21. Sometimes looking back on it makes me think sex is weird. :P However...I<strong> didn't break my hymen until I was with the next guy...(Yes, he was that small).
</strong>Posted by lunarsongbird[/QUOTE]

Oh my. That must have been surprising to you. Going to guy #2 thinking it's not going to hurt and then having your hymen broken!

My first time hurt a little, but I didn't bleed or anything.

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