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I don't know what to title this.

I've tried to write this post a couple times this week to explain my absence.  I keep typing things out and they just haven't felt right so I hit "cancel" and go on.  I've decided that there's no good way to say it, no right way to say it, I have to just say it.

This (clicky edited out) is the article that ran front page above the fold of my hometown paper.  It's about my mother, and the motorcycle accident that killed her last Saturday.  There's a typo in the paper, her maiden name starts with a P, not a C, but otherwise the facts are accurate as best I can tell. 

My family and I are heartbroken beyond belief.  This is not a feeling that can be explained.  I'm not looking for attention, please don't feel like you have to say anything or respond, I just feel like I need to explain that I'm going through a lot.  And it sucks.

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  • edited December 2011
    Oh Mary, I'm so sorry for your loss. I've sat here for several minutes trying to figure out the best thing to say to make you feel better, but I know nothing anyone says will make you feel better about this. I can't imagine what you are going through, but I do want you to know that we are here for you if you need anything at all.

    Please let us know if there is anything we can do. Your family is definitely in my thoughts and prayers. <3
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    oh my gosh that is terrible.  i cant imagine what you are going through.  i will keep you and your family in my prayers.  god bless.

    Sarah

  • edited December 2011
    I don't even know what to say besides I'm sorry...and that's not enough!

    Please let us know if you need ANYTHING!

    You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers :(
  • edited December 2011
    I will be praying for you and your family. Let us know if we can do anything for you!
    Heather
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    I dont have the words that will comfort you and I don't know if those words even exsist at the moment, but I do know that you and your family are being prayed for and youre in my thoughts and prayers.

    I wish I could say something that would make things seem a little better. If there's anything you need, if you need to vent or just get away, let me know!

    Love and Best wishes!
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    edited December 2011

    I am so sorry for your loss.  Your family will definetely be in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time.

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    my heart really aches for you right now and this just brought tears to my eyes. i know there is nothing none of us can say to you right now except you have a family here that is praying for you and very sorry for your tragic loss.

    lots of love, hugs, thoughts are prayers for you and your family.

    please please let us know if there is anything any of us can do.
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    My sympathies.
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  • Ang~n~JTAng~n~JT member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh I truly hate to hear that you are going thru all of that! i am so sorry for your loss. I will be keeping you & your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • meredithl618meredithl618 member
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    edited December 2011
    I am so sorry for your loss. I know this is such a hard thing for you and your family to have to deal with. I'll be thinking about and praying for you. 
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    I'm so sorry for your loss.  I can't imagine how you and your family must feel right now.  You and your family are in our thoughts.  Let us know if you need anything, we're all here for you
  • edited December 2011
    Mary, my heart is hurting for you right now. I am praying for you and your family as you go through this difficult time. 
    Like others have said if there is ANYTHING we can do for you please let us know. 
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  • janice1980janice1980 member
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    edited December 2011
    Mary, I am so sorry for your lose, I can't imagine what you are having to go through.  I know there are no words that can take away the pain you are feeling.  But please know that we are here for you and if there is ANYTHING you need, please do not hesitate to ask.  You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!  
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  • alliegator8alliegator8 member
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    edited December 2011

    Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

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    wow, i'm truely sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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    Mary, I'm so sorry :( I'll be thinking about you and your family today!
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    I don't even know what to say. I am so sorry.  Please let us know if you need ANYTHING!
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    I just read the article and I'm in tears.  What a beautiful Mom!!

  • edited December 2011
    Hi Mary. I am so sorry to hear about your mother. I know you and your family are going through a rough time but I will pray for you all and hope that with each day it gets better. I know this should be a happy time in your life and it has been turned around but keep your head up and know that she is watching over you and is so proud of you. I lost my dad last year so I can only imagine the heartache you are going through. If u ever need to talk im here..we all are here!
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    edited December 2011
    You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I can't even imagine what you must be going through.
  • edited December 2011
    I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
  • edited December 2011
    I am honestly speechless.....I am so sorry that you are having to go through this.  My sympathy goes out to you and your family.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers. 

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  • edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry to hear about this :(  Please know you can lean on us for anything or just a "shoulder" to cry on!
  • edited December 2011
    How terrible :(  I am so sorry you are having to go through this!  You are in my thoughts.
  • tarheelbabstarheelbabs member
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    edited December 2011
    So very sorry.  It's very difficult to lose someone so suddenly--especially at a young age.  Take care.  Barbara
  • ecuchikaecuchika member
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    edited December 2011
    Mary,
    Leah told me about this but I wasnt sure when you were going to be back on TK and I didn't want to say anything before you were ready to post.  I just want you to know that I am truly sorry to hear about your mom!  Again like all the others please don't hesitate to talk to me (us) if you need to!  Stories like that just make me so angry and I really focus on safety and watching for dumb drivers when I teach my motorcycle classes!  Love Ginger

  • CJ4578CJ4578 member
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    edited December 2011
    I know that there aren't really any words that will make the pain any less, but please know you're in our thoughts. I am so so sorry for your loss.
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    Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry for your loss.  My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family.  I hope you can find some source of peace during this very difficult time. 
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