I'm really starting to make myself sick with worrying about if I made the right choice on my photographer. I did my homework checked out all his reviews lokked at page upon page of past weddings he has done, met with him 2 different times before giving him my deposit. Now the first time I talked to him (and its really not that big of a deal) he just talked and talked I think I was on the phone with him just to get a quote of his packages for almost a hour and some change! Holy! Ok then the first time I met him his wife was there and she was trying to give us some of her input on things we might want or consider well I saw his temper start to spark up numerous times and fi and I even looked at each other after we left like did that really just happen! He told his wife to shut up twice,told her to go see what was going on with dinner...like she was a nusience(if that's how you spell it)haha......then the second time we meant him he asked me if my dress was strapless I told him yes well he proceeds to tell me well ok there are certain ways I can take your picture to hide your big arms...Wtf!!!!!! Who says that????? Ok fi told me not to worry about it because at this point I'm done next photographer in line please! But I rolled with fi(I'm not a pushover person but don't wanna upset fi with telling this guy where he can put his camera) so I sent fi to give him the deposit a couple days later and set up our engagment picture set.....the whole time at our session this photographer is having me *suck my belly in and push my chest out* ok THAT don't make for ridiculous pictures! So with all that said what should I do? Anything just go with it....? O and also one more thing he keeps saying about how he gets everybodys attention so he can get their pictures.....yes I want pictures with ppl looking at the camera but I would rather candid pictures too....I kept correctfing him and letting him know this and he would say yea yea of course but then repeat he needs everybody to be paying attention and look at the camera...I don't know if he is just referring to certain pictures or ALL the pictures he takes..I don't want to stop whatever I'm doing to look at the camera!!!! Lol now I. Don't know if I'm getting nervous because we are paying him off next week completely and just making things seem worse in my head then they are or what. What do you ladies think?ss so long:-(