So FI and I are having a hard time with this. We are having only one shower and FIs mom and sis in law have rented a hall for a luncheon that holds 80 people and because so have basically set the cap at that.
We are trying to help his mom and sister in law by compiling the guest list and I was just curious who is invited to your shower?! If we invited all the women it would be right around 80. But I don't want to invite everyone just because ...
Obviously my close female friends and family will be invited, as well as a number of FIs friends wives who I have become close with, I'm just curious about everyone else?!
Some sites say every female invited to the wedding, others say only close friends and family... what about people in-between?!
FI has a lot of super close friends from college (and their families) who will be invited to the wedding but he hasn't seen in some time, he knows all their wives but I don't...
I'm just not sure what the etiquette is?!
Suggestions?!
thx!