My brother and his girlfriend will have been dating almost a year at the time of my wedding. I do not get along with her at all, but am still giving my brother the courtesy of bringing her as his date to the wedding. However I would like to have her around as least as possiple. If she is invited to the wedding, is it wrong to have my brother not bring her to the rehearsal dinner?
Re: unwanted at rehearsal dinner?
[QUOTE]My brother and his girlfriend will have been dating almost a year at the time of my wedding. I do not get along with her at all, but am still giving my brother the <strong>courtesy</strong> of bringing her as his date to the wedding. However I would like to have her around as least as possiple. If she is invited to the wedding, is it wrong to have my brother not bring her to the rehearsal dinner?
Posted by britandseanwed[/QUOTE]
Well aren't you nice (sarcasm font).
They are in a relationship, so you (as the nice hostess) must invite her. How would you feel if you were excluded at their wedding (which is a possibility if you are a brat and don't invite her)?
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To answer your question, you should invite her to the RD.
And, she will know that you purposely excluded her. What if they end up getting married? Do you really want that kind of a history hanging over you? Because believe me, she won't forget it.