I am having a destination wedding in Hawaii and my sister and I were talking about the Bridal Shower and Bachlorette Party. Since I'm having a destination wedding and inviting immediately family only, should I still have a Bridal Shower and Bachlorette Party? I am having a large reception/party a month after the wedding back home in which we are inviting all family, friends, co-workers, etc. Proper etiquette is that you only invite those to the shower and party that are invited to the actual wedding ceremony, is this true? Does this mean I should not have a Bridal Shower and a Bachlorette Party? Any advice would be great! Thanks!