Tired of you ladies

Jade11 · April 2010

I have been lurking since I first got engaged. Believe me when I say I KNOW you don't give a rat's ass what I think. I just think some of you ladies are so RUDE! I feel like some of you are acting out the "mean girl" role you so desperately wanted to be in high school and it's pathetic.

Specifically Salt and Amoro. Get over yourselves.

nda_roxybabe · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_tired-of-ladies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6a4445e-3305-46bb-8b92-8d637c83fea5Post:5fdd19e1-2c03-46f1-bfb9-44fde662c118">Tired of you ladies</a>:
[QUOTE]I have been lurking since I first got engaged. Believe me when I say I KNOW you don't give a rat's ass what I think. I just think some of you ladies are so RUDE! I feel like some of you are acting out the "mean girl" role you so desperately wanted to be in high school and it's pathetic. Specifically Salt and Amoro. Get over yourselves.
Posted by Jade11[/QUOTE]
STFU. NFT needed.

Jade11 · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_tired-of-ladies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6a4445e-3305-46bb-8b92-8d637c83fea5Post:00c3bd2f-4697-4eaf-aaed-3680ea02b633">Re: Tired of you ladies</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Tired of you ladies : STFU. NFT needed.
Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]

<div>Intelligent</div>

jajph1974 · April 2010

WTF was the point of this post?

MeaghanandMichael · April 2010

and what exactly do you think is going to come of this rant?

Jade11 · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_tired-of-ladies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6a4445e-3305-46bb-8b92-8d637c83fea5Post:5025c5f1-7836-42b6-954c-4df503cf2923">Re: Tired of you ladies</a>:
[QUOTE]WTF was the point of this post?
Posted by jajph1974[/QUOTE]

<div>What's the point of half of these posts on here? </div>

nda_roxybabe · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_tired-of-ladies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6a4445e-3305-46bb-8b92-8d637c83fea5Post:c697b046-4a69-4273-b52a-7fc73e7ca9a6">Re: Tired of you ladies</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Tired of you ladies : What's the point of half of these posts on here?
Posted by Jade11[/QUOTE]
Most of them have a point. Your however, not so much.

Nebb · April 2010

You only think this because youre lame and you know we would all think it.

Jade11 · April 2010

Oh, they do? The point is usually "You're a newbie! I'm going to sh*t on everything you say! What could someone who doesn't post on here 100 times a day know about anything?"

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_tired-of-ladies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6a4445e-3305-46bb-8b92-8d637c83fea5Post:c644c18d-7f8f-42a0-978d-543ecbc92e62">Re: Tired of you ladies</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Tired of you ladies : Intelligent
Posted by Jade11[/QUOTE]

Right back at ya.

nda_roxybabe · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_tired-of-ladies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6a4445e-3305-46bb-8b92-8d637c83fea5Post:3c977fad-f1f2-4205-8ec5-cd9046bf841f">Re: Tired of you ladies</a>:
[QUOTE]Oh, they do? The point is usually "You're a newbie! I'm going to sh*t on everything you say! What could someone who doesn't post on here 100 times a day know about anything?"
Posted by Jade11[/QUOTE]
Grow a backbone why dont ya

maratea · April 2010

I've mostly been lurking since I first joined TK, but I never really thought these ladies were rude. They all have quick wit and good humor. And they don't make stupid posts to say how much they dislike others.

jajph1974 · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_tired-of-ladies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6a4445e-3305-46bb-8b92-8d637c83fea5Post:3c977fad-f1f2-4205-8ec5-cd9046bf841f">Re: Tired of you ladies</a>:
[QUOTE]Oh, they do? The point is usually "You're a newbie! I'm going to sh*t on everything you say! What could someone who doesn't post on here 100 times a day know about anything?"
Posted by Jade11[/QUOTE]

I don't neccessarily think that's true. The only time I've noticed newbs getting flamed is when they come on here acting like spoiled princesses.

Most people just don't have a tolerance for that crap.

ricksang · April 2010

Excuse me, but not everyone on this board is mean to newbies thankyouverymuch!

Nebb · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_tired-of-ladies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6a4445e-3305-46bb-8b92-8d637c83fea5Post:c2051668-dd57-4a87-8f9c-6d30747314fe">Re: Tired of you ladies</a>:
[QUOTE]I've mostly been lurking since I first joined TK, but I never really thought these ladies were rude. They all have quick wit and good humor. And they don't make stupid posts to say how much they dislike others.
Posted by maratea[/QUOTE]
See, if I may say, you are rather new. I have noticed you here and there, as a newb, but I have never given you shiit because you dont say stupid things. Not ALL newbs are attacked.

MeaghanandMichael · April 2010

I hardly see people getting jumped on for being new. Although, it may seem that way since newer people are often the ones to ask the ridiculous questions. I don't think there are very many people here who hate on newbs for that sheer fact at all.

MeaghanandMichael · April 2010

ok, jinx to all of you

Jade11 · April 2010

No one on here is going to acknowledge that you rarely give new posters a chance? It just makes you look like a bunch of hostile women. However, I'm assuming you're not really like this IRL and most likely have good marriages etc. I just think you ladies come off as very abrasive.

adamnkel · April 2010

I'm a lurker and don't usually post here but do you have nothing to do on a Friday night but start sh*t with internet strangers. You should probably get a life.

IMO a majority of the regulars here give pretty good advise to those that ask reasonable questions.

jajph1974 · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_tired-of-ladies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6a4445e-3305-46bb-8b92-8d637c83fea5Post:43db05ea-6e2b-49f3-843c-ccdf7b1116d0">Re: Tired of you ladies</a>:
[QUOTE]ok, jinx to all of you
Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

Yeah, that was weird

FutureMrsDudley55 · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_tired-of-ladies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6a4445e-3305-46bb-8b92-8d637c83fea5Post:8bcdaf6e-03e7-4c7c-ab1b-7871eecf885b">Re: Tired of you ladies</a>:
[QUOTE]Excuse me, but not everyone on this board is mean to newbies thankyouverymuch!
Posted by ricksang[/QUOTE]

Ditto. And if you're so tired of everyone then why come back?

Jade11 · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_tired-of-ladies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6a4445e-3305-46bb-8b92-8d637c83fea5Post:c2051668-dd57-4a87-8f9c-6d30747314fe">Re: Tired of you ladies</a>:
[QUOTE]I've mostly been lurking since I first joined TK, but I never really thought these ladies were rude. They all have quick wit and good humor. And they don't make stupid posts to say how much they dislike others.
Posted by maratea[/QUOTE]

<div>You're just another pathetic bride who wants part of a weird internet "cult".</div>

Jade11 · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_tired-of-ladies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6a4445e-3305-46bb-8b92-8d637c83fea5Post:8bcdaf6e-03e7-4c7c-ab1b-7871eecf885b">Re: Tired of you ladies</a>:
[QUOTE]Excuse me, but not everyone on this board is mean to newbies thankyouverymuch!
Posted by ricksang[/QUOTE]

<div>No you're not. I feel like some people are really cool on here like Smokey and Jasmine. Those are the only 2 I can think of that don't put on some type of bitchy front.</div>

jajph1974 · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_tired-of-ladies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6a4445e-3305-46bb-8b92-8d637c83fea5Post:e216daed-f795-41d0-9d11-4092da2f31c6">Re: Tired of you ladies</a>:
[QUOTE]No one on here is going to acknowledge that you rarely give new posters a chance? It just makes you look like a bunch of hostile women. However, I'm assuming you're not really like this IRL and most likely have good marriages etc. I just think you ladies come off as very abrasive.
Posted by Jade11[/QUOTE]

I think the advice given here is more honest rather than abrasive. Sugar-coated answers don't really do anyone any good

Nebb · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_tired-of-ladies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6a4445e-3305-46bb-8b92-8d637c83fea5Post:e216daed-f795-41d0-9d11-4092da2f31c6">Re: Tired of you ladies</a>:
[QUOTE]No one on here is going to acknowledge that you rarely give new posters a chance? It just makes you look like a bunch of hostile women. However, I'm assuming you're not really like this IRL and most likely have good marriages etc. I just think you ladies come off as very abrasive.
Posted by Jade11[/QUOTE]
We regularly give new posters a chance, and more often than not welcome them and ask questions to learn more about them. The majority of "new" posters who we give a hard time to are trolls (and its obvious), and selfish little girls looking for validation for bad ideas - in that case we arent being "mean" because theyre new, but because the truth in those situations comes across as mean from that perspective. Sometimes the truth hurts, we arent giong to sugar coat it/

maratea · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_tired-of-ladies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6a4445e-3305-46bb-8b92-8d637c83fea5Post:fb2fafe6-e222-4a97-971f-a0ff290f4ac7">Re: Tired of you ladies</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Tired of you ladies : See, if I may say, you are rather new. I have noticed you here and there, as a newb, but I have never given you shiit because you dont say stupid things. Not ALL newbs are attacked.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
Exactly. If newbs don't have a stupid post or comment, I don't see them getting flamed. AND I see regs getting flamed also. So it's not exclusive to newbs.

smokeybailey · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_tired-of-ladies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6a4445e-3305-46bb-8b92-8d637c83fea5Post:e216daed-f795-41d0-9d11-4092da2f31c6">Re: Tired of you ladies</a>:
[QUOTE]No one on here is going to acknowledge that you rarely give new posters a chance? It just makes you look like a bunch of hostile women. However, I'm assuming you're not really like this IRL and most likely have good marriages etc. I just think you ladies come off as very abrasive.
Posted by Jade11[/QUOTE]

Everyone was new here at one point or another. Get over yourself. You obviously lack a rapier wit and fundamental story telling skills. Otherwise, you would just jump in something more intelligent than "tired of you ladies."

Plus-Salt and Amoro are awesome opossums.

nda_roxybabe · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_tired-of-ladies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6a4445e-3305-46bb-8b92-8d637c83fea5Post:a8b38d00-a77e-43c6-9430-1e3c16e85c7e">Re: Tired of you ladies</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Tired of you ladies : You're just another pathetic bride who wants part of a weird internet "cult".
Posted by Jade11[/QUOTE]
Yes, we're in a cult. We've all drank the koolaid

smokeybailey · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_tired-of-ladies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6a4445e-3305-46bb-8b92-8d637c83fea5Post:23d680d3-2983-4ad2-b4ed-0b9efc77356c">Re: Tired of you ladies</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Tired of you ladies : No you're not.<strong> I feel like some people are really cool on here like Smokey</strong> and Jasmine. Those are the only 2 I can think of that don't put on some type of bitchy front.
Posted by Jade11[/QUOTE]

hahahahah!

I just read your comment. Smokey TOTALLY is a b!tch. Watch out for her.

MeaghanandMichael · April 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_tired-of-ladies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6a4445e-3305-46bb-8b92-8d637c83fea5Post:bd79da98-8aaa-4150-b1e1-7fcc5faa424f">Re: Tired of you ladies</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Tired of you ladies : Yeah, that was weird
Posted by jajph1974[/QUOTE]

zomg! are we in a clique now?? :)

Jade11 · April 2010

Really?? I'm shocked that people will not admit that you are brutal to newbies.

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