As the wedding is drawing closer, I am hearing more and more complaining from my family about the fact that 'it's my second wedding' and I 'shouldn't be making such a big deal about it (i.e. having a ceremony and a reception)'. I'm also being told by my mother that family members are griping about getting me a gift, even though the majority of them didn't get me one last time. They are also complaining that the economy is bad, and it's selfish for my fiance and I to be 'flaunting' money at a time when many people are struggling. It really is disgusting to me, because the main reason we are having a wedding is to get the family together since it rarely happens, and we have tried so hard to keep the event minimalist and low cost for everyone else. We are actually having it out of state so that they can all stay with other family members in the area where we are having it to save them paying for hotels.