My sister/MOH is throwing me a shower and so is my MIL. My quandry is that they both need guest lists and I really don't know who I should invite to both. I was planning on inviting my close friends, family, BM's and MIL to my sister's shower and then just BM's, my mom, and grandmother to MIL's shower. Is that a normal split? Or should I be inviting the same women to both showers? It seems excessive to me for the same guest list to be invited to both showers... Help!