A bit of background -- FI and I are 100% paying for the wedding -- my mom keeps saying they're going to put some money toward it -- but not sure how much. (therefore not counting on it) Her and my dad DID pay for my dress though! My mom has had SEVERAL opinions -- but nothing has been major so I've made small switches here and there. The one that seems ongoing is whether I "should" have appitizers during cocktail hour. Now in a perfect world I would have enough money to do them -- but they're simply not in my budget! She's acting like it's the most rude thing ever! We're having a plated dinner with salads. Am I completely wrong for not thinking this is THAT big of an issue? I wasn't stressing over it -- but she keeps bringing it up!