I've decided to stop letting my bridesmaids let me down & upset me. I've decided in my mind that MoH is no longer MoH (I will not physically change this!) That the bridesmaid who talks to me every chance she gets, who is there when she's supposed to be, who doesn't talk bad about my other bridesmaids(my sisters) to me, who is at my house every Thursday for the past 2months, & who just acts like she cares that girl is in my head & heart my MoH. Now my technical MoH has been flaking a lot from the get go. Was 20minutes late to dress shopping, didn't even show when she asked if she could help me pick out invitations (in my head MoH did), talks bad about my BMs/sisters to me, still hasn't got her dress fitted, Then!! Yesterday says she's coming over after work & she's going to help with wedding stuff. Asks what time to be there & what we're working on. Well come 6 last night she text me "???" I asked what she was sending that for. Then hello? Then "I take it you aren't coming" No replies. She never called, never showed up & is texting me this morning asking if I'm mad. Guess what. I'm not, I've just learned who my real true friends are & who's going to be there for me. And I'm happy & relieved at this revelation.
