I judge....

LetsHikeToday · August 2011

The board seems dead so I'll start an I judge post.

Go...

I judge:

My coworker who takes her pills and posts on facebook. Everything is misspelled and looks crazy.

Parents who let their kids run full speed around the dog park.

Racists.

KendallR10 · August 2011

I judge

people who live in poor areas and when someone can save them money they don't take it,

I'll edit this later

LetsHikeToday · August 2011

What do you mean Kendall? Can you give an example?

KendallR10 · August 2011

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[QUOTE]What do you mean Kendall? Can you give an example?
Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]
like for a friends job she goes house to house and is trying to save people money on their internet and TV. She went to one house and this lady was on the phone saying how she couldn't go see that person because she had no money. My friend would have been able to save her about $80+ a month. The lady said no...

YoungDuo · August 2011

I judge:

parents who let their kids run around and make a lot of noise in a restaurant. Take your kids home and discipline them so they will behave in public!

people who do not fill out their deposit tickets, even after they are shown how to multiple times.

LetsHikeToday · August 2011

Maybe your friend wasn't a good enough sales person then?

I have to say, if someone comes to my door, I either don't answer or I answer knowing I will say no.

KendallR10 · August 2011

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[QUOTE]Maybe your friend wasn't a good enough sales person then? I have to say, if someone comes to my door, I either don't answer or I answer knowing I will say no.
Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]
She can open 4-5 apps in a day. This lady was just in a bad mood

YoungDuo · August 2011

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[QUOTE]Maybe your friend wasn't a good enough sales person then? I have to say, <strong>if someone comes to my door, I either don't answer or I answer knowing I will say no.
</strong>Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]

I'm the same way..if I want something, I will usually go get it myself or do without

LetsHikeToday · August 2011

Young- Me too. I hate when people try to sell me stuff at my door.

Young- I also hate when kids run around restaurants. There is a restaurant in my hometown that is child free. I've read a lot of articles on businesses going towards a few hours of child free a week. Some grocery stores are doing it. I think it's a great idea. If my grocery store had like 4 hours a week that were child free, sign me up- Even when I do have kids! I'm totally cool with that.

YoungDuo · August 2011

That would be awesome if my area would do that! I understand kids need to express themselves but restaurants and grocery stores are not the places to do that. Also, the mall in town has made it so if you are under 18, on Friday and Saturdays, you cannot be at the mall after 6 pm without a chaperone. It has made our mall so much nicer and not infested with groups of kids with nothing better to do.

KendallR10 · August 2011

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[QUOTE]That would be awesome if my area would do that! I understand kids need to express themselves but restaurants and grocery stores are not the places to do that. <strong>Also, the mall in town has made it so if you are under 18, on Friday and Saturdays, you cannot be at the mall after 6 pm without a chaperone. It has made our mall so much nicer and not infested with groups of kids with nothing better to do.</strong>
Posted by YoungDuo[/QUOTE]
I would have found that annoying. I didn't get off work until 7. when I was underage and then I would go do my shopping after. I wouldn't want to have to call my mom just so she could watch me get her birthday present

YoungDuo · August 2011

I would have found it annoying also, but it is only on the weekends and it's because we have so many kids that are trying to start trouble and steal from people and it's become a serious issue. And that's usually how it is, the good ones have to suffer because of the bad ones.

KendallR10 · August 2011

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[QUOTE]I would have found it annoying also, but it is only on the weekends and it's because we have so many kids that are trying to start trouble and steal from people and it's become a serious issue. And that's usually how it is, the good ones have to suffer because of the bad ones.
Posted by YoungDuo[/QUOTE]
weekends aren't so bad. But I used to do mall runs at 8 pm. right before the mall closed

calindi · August 2011

I judge...

stupid people. Enough said.

people who inflict their political opinions on others.

girls who speak in a nasal-y sing-song voice that I have come to associate with dumb blondes.

people who don't understand how to use a traffic circle/rotary/roundabout/whatever you want to call it! Yield means YOU YIELD! Not that the circle is supposed to stop to let you in!

Zimsgirl · August 2011

I judge the person that lives next to us. He has a dog and continues to let it crap all over the grass in front of everyone's apt. I was getting ready for my Arbonne party yesterday and the dog went in front of our sliding door and he didn't pick it up! I was about to grab a plastic bag and be like "here I noticed you didn't have any to pick that up with" but I chickened out

calindi · August 2011

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[QUOTE]I judge the person that lives next to us. He has a dog and continues to let it crap all over the grass in front of everyone's apt. I was getting ready for my Arbonne party yesterday and the dog went in front of our sliding door and he didn't pick it up! I was about to grab a plastic bag and be like "here I noticed you didn't have any to pick that up with" but I chickened out
Posted by Zimsgirl[/QUOTE]

FI gets so pissed with the people who do this to our lawn! Not to mention the crazy cat lady who feeds all the strays, who then hang out on our lawn.... yeah, I judge her, too.

You should totally do that next time.

SamiJoeB · August 2011

I judge:
People in my classes who continually shout out wrong answers, Shouting it loudly doesn't make you right, it just makes you loud and wrong.

Women who constantly complain about how the want to lose weight, but don't do anything to try to change. I have no patience for that.

Women who let their H's pay for a gym membership with no intention of ever actually going, and then who blame me for "getting them in trouble" when I call to check up and make sure they're okay.

Flameworthy, I know but I'm being honest, Teen moms. You know where babies come from so don't act so surprised when you get knocked up. And girls who get pregnant to trap a guy. I also really resent girls who get pregnant and are too young, and too immature get pregnant when they're not even trying, when there are so many wonderful couples who have such a hard time getting pregnant. It's just sad and not fair.

ETA: For Kendall's sake, I do not mean rape victims. I didn't really think this was necessary the first time around but clearly is was.

LetsHikeToday · August 2011

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[QUOTE]I judge the person that lives next to us. He has a dog and continues to let it crap all over the grass in front of everyone's apt. I was getting ready for my Arbonne party yesterday and the dog went in front of our sliding door and he didn't pick it up! I was about to grab a plastic bag and be like "here I noticed you didn't have any to pick that up with" but I chickened out
Posted by Zimsgirl[/QUOTE]

Geno goes on other people's yard because obviously I can't stop him HOWEVER, I have bags in hand and I pick it up. I hate when people don't pick up after their dogs.

It's so rude.

We have dog trash cans all over our neighborhood with FREE BAGS and people will let their dogs poop in front of the bags and cans and they leave it.

LetsHikeToday · August 2011

I also judge:

People who post about their kids numerous times a day on facebook. Kids are cute. I get it. Your kid is awesome. I understand but I don't need to see 10 videos of him, 5 links of cute clothes you're thinking about getting him, and read about his poop.

I definitely defriend these people but come on.

KendallR10 · August 2011

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[QUOTE]I judge: People in my classes who continually shout out wrong answers, Shouting it loudly doesn't make you right, it just makes you loud and wrong. Women who constantly complain about how the want to lose weight, but don't do anything to try to change. I have no patience for that. Women who let their H's pay for a gym membership with no intention of ever actually going, and then who blame me for "getting them in trouble" when I call to check up and make sure they're okay. Flameworthy, I know but I'm being honest, <strong>Teen moms. You know where babies come from so don't act so surprised when you get knocked up. And girls who get pregnant to trap a guy. I also really resent girls who get pregnant and are too young, and too immature get pregnant when they're not even trying, when there are so many wonderful couples who have such a hard time getting pregnant. It's just sad and not fair.</strong>
Posted by SamiJoeB[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>I really hope you mean teen moms that are dumb and get knocked up because they didn't use protection. And not ones that it was beyond their control. But I agree it is sad.

</div>

YoungDuo · August 2011

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[QUOTE]I judge... stupid people. Enough said. people who inflict their political opinions on others. girls who speak in a nasal-y sing-song voice that I have come to associate with dumb blondes. <strong>people who don't understand how to use a traffic circle/rotary/roundabout/whatever you want to call it! Yield means YOU YIELD! Not that the circle is supposed to stop to let you in!
</strong>Posted by calindi[/QUOTE]
This! I forgot about this but yes, it is SO annoying when people do this!

LetsHikeToday · August 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.... : I really hope you mean teen moms that are dumb and get knocked up because they didn't use protection. And not ones that it was beyond their control. But I agree it is sad.
Posted by KendallR10[/QUOTE]

I'm pretty sure she didn't mean rape. I don't think anyone in their right mind would blame a teenager who was raped.

KendallR10 · August 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.... : I'm pretty sure she didn't mean rape. I don't think anyone in their right mind would blame a teenager who was raped.
Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]
you never know. I've had people that I thought we're friends tell me it was my fault. needless to say, they are no longer friends

LetsHikeToday · August 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.... : you never know. I've had people that I thought we're friends tell me it was my fault. needless to say, they are no longer friends
Posted by KendallR10[/QUOTE]

Then they are aholes.. and I'm sorry if you had to go through that.

CAB1217 · August 2011

I judge my coworker who said that my FI's religion is a cult.

(It's so not, btw...) This happened last week, but I am still bothered by it.

calindi · August 2011

Kendall, I believe she means teenagers who intentionally get pregnant, or who engage in sexual activity without taking necessary precautions to avoid pregnancy. When I see someone who looks like they're a babysitter and not a mother, that they should be going to the school prom rather than playgroup, I judge that, too. More than anything else, it makes me sad because having a child before you're financially stable and have a solid educational background to pursue a career that can support you and your family is incredibly dumb and selfish. There are a few people who can do it successfully, but you see far more children who suffer from having underprepared parents who were too young or too inexperienced to handle the responsibilities of raising a child.

calindi · August 2011

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[QUOTE]I judge my coworker who said that my FI's religion is a cult. :( (It's so not, btw...) This happened last week, but I am still bothered by it.
Posted by CAB1217[/QUOTE]

Curious, and no judgement - what religion does your FI follow?

I judge my former co-worker who told me any woman who wants an engagement ring deserves to be beaten since it's just one way of a man marking his territory, like a dog pissing on its property. Klassy. Oh, same beyotch told me that she didn't know how I could marry a man who was a murderer for a profession.

KendallR10 · August 2011

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[QUOTE]Kendall, I believe she means teenagers who intentionally get pregnant, or who engage in sexual activity without taking necessary precautions to avoid pregnancy. When I see someone who looks like they're a babysitter and not a mother, that they should be going to the school prom rather than playgroup, I judge that, too. More than anything else, it makes me sad because having a child before you're financially stable and <strong>have a solid educational background </strong>to pursue a career that can support you and your family is incredibly dumb and selfish. There are a few people who can do it successfully, but you see far more children who suffer from having underprepared parents who were too young or too inexperienced to handle the responsibilities of raising a child.
Posted by calindi[/QUOTE]
my mom had me got her BA and her masters but my parents both had jobs before I was born

calindi · August 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.... : my mom had me got her BA and her masters but my parents both had jobs before I was born
Posted by KendallR10[/QUOTE]

You trying to convince me otherwise? It's much harder to get a degree after you have a child. As I said, there are some people who do a great job, but I don't see why someone should make a difficult challenge even harder by not showing up to the game with the right tools to play. It's a scramble to get them later on. My Dad got his masters degree while I was growing up, and it was a huge sacrifice for all of us.

KendallR10 · August 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.... : You trying to convince me otherwise? It's much harder to get a degree after you have a child. As I said, there are some people who do a great job, but I don't see why someone should make a difficult challenge even harder by not showing up to the game with the right tools to play. It's a scramble to get them later on. My Dad got his masters degree while I was growing up, and it was a huge sacrifice for all of us.
Posted by calindi[/QUOTE]
nope just saying. it is do able. I couldn't be more proud of my mom.

LetsHikeToday · August 2011

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge.... : nope just saying. it is do able. I couldn't be more proud of my mom.
Posted by KendallR10[/QUOTE]

She did say in her original response that some people could do it successfully.

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