I know most people are planning to give their WP gifts at the RD, but what if we gave our gifts to the WP at different points throughout the few days before our wedding when they arrive? Would that be okay... or is it supposed to be a group thing?
Also FI and I were planning to just give them their gifts and then write them a TY after the wedding and mention how appreciative we are that they stood up for us on our wedding day, thank them for a gift (if they gave us one), and for coming to the wedding all at once instead of writing them 2 TYs, which seems redundant. Would that be okay?