please help, i am so confused!!!! i finally found a venue i really loved and so did the future hubby problem it is a little out of the budget. It is everything we wanted something different, unique yet the cost adds up. I was with family this weekend and the aunts found a place almost $30 cheaper which is still nice and not anything i would hate just not different as i wanted. My family always calls a wedding a 5 hour party so of course they could care less where it is. What do you guys think??? dream wedding thats way too much or the smarter wedding??? thoughts .