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What would you do? Bridesmaid Drama
Here's my story. I told all of my bridesmaids that I was sending them something in the mail. I sent out bridesmaids invitations to 8 of my dearest friends and family members. The card read "Will you be my bridesmaid". 7 out of the 8 responded yes. The 8th, my sister has not acknowledged that she even received the card.
Ok, maybe it got lost in the mail. WRONG. I sent a certified return receipt with her card. She just moved into a new place, so I wanted to make sure she got it. The card was received by her front desk and given to my sister. That was early June. I have talked to my sister since then, and she has not said anything about the card. My other sisters don't want me to ask her about it.
What would you do?
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Re: What would you do? Bridesmaid Drama
Why don't your other sister's want you to ask her?
[QUOTE]Here's my story. I told all of my bridesmaids that I was sending them something in the mail. I sent out bridesmaids invitations to 8 of my dearest friends and family members. The card read "Will you be my bridesmaid". 7 out of the 8 responded yes. The 8th, my sister has not acknowledged that she even received the card. Ok, maybe it got lost in the mail. WRONG. I sent a certified return receipt with her card. She just moved into a new place, so I wanted to make sure she got it. The card was received by her front desk and given to my sister. That was early June. I have talked to my sister since then, and she has not said anything about the card. My other sisters don't want me to ask her about it. What would you do?
Posted by kaimah[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Where is the drama?</div><div>
</div><div>Maybe she hasn't opened it? Do you think she'd ignore you on purpose? Instead of assuming the worst just ask her about it. Stress eliminated.
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Why not just ask her? Seeing is though she just moved alot more may be on her mind.
[QUOTE]Thanks ladies. I will give her a call. I love her and she is my sister, I should give her the benefit of the doubt. My other sisters don't want me to ask her because when I got engaged she took a week to call me back. During that time she was writing all over Facebook about going to the Prince concert and other things. On top of that when my fiance had ananeurysm last year, she never called me, she just sent a text message once.
Posted by kaimah[/QUOTE]
<div>All the more reason her lack of response shouldn't be a surprise. It doesn't sound like she's ignoring you on purpose. Maybe she's bad with returning calls (or doesn't like to talk on the phone).</div>
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Agree with ladies.....just call & ask her. I wouldn't even go off of what your sisters said re: her calling you a week later when you got engaged. I wouldn't care about that....its about what's going on now.
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