Is it ever ok to break the rule??

J&K10910 · May 2010

The only reason I blushed is because there wasn't a shocked face.

:-o

beatlesgirl25 · May 2010

Aw, you and your modesty. I'm not buying it.

SarahPLiz · May 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Is it ever ok to break the rule?? : I know, me too. I do try to help when I can. But it seems that the girls have this one covered, and Blueeyed knows what she's gotta do. On that note... What about up in the candy store With that chocolate, chocolate make it melt Whips and chains, handcuffs Smack a little booty up with my belt
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

Are you trying to make me think you invented sex?

[Deleted User] · May 2010

Don't matter, just don't bite it.

hd7694 · May 2010

You all are nuts! I like it!

I have to comment on the OP. I have to agree with the PP that said all she sees is the crazy chick coming to the wedding and going into labor!! This too is what crossed my mind. Although, she probably won't actually be in labor, she will just pretend that she is! If that happens--call her an ambulance! Rack up a high hospital bill for her as a going away gift!

Yeah, that is how I roll.

Blueyed228 · May 2010

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[QUOTE]LOL. OP knows what I mean. She jumped all over my ass for asking a similar question to the one she is asking, and that kind of blew my mind. That's all.
Posted by lharri12[/QUOTE]

False. You actually sent the invitations out and did not invite your dads wife.

My invitations have not gone out. This is not a relatives spouse.

Nice try though. My question was hypothetical. Your rudeness actually came to fruition.

Good to see you are still being you though.

Blueyed228 · May 2010

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[QUOTE]emarston1- my Fiance answer I were going to get married at the chapel in your sig pic! I think that's really awesome. It books pretty fast though. We tried to book 8 months out and all they had was a 10am so we said forget it. Everyone in the area wants to get married there. OP- I know this girl sucks. Obviously she's jealous because you're the center of attention instead of her. It is possible, though, that you offended her without realising. <u><strong>Maybe she thought that you knew her due date when you set your wedding date.</strong></u> Or maybe she's upset that her husband might be in your wedding while she's in labor. I know she's doing terrible things, but maybe you could have a heart-to-heart with her and get to the bottom of it so that in the future things like this won't happen. Of course she is probably just an attention seeking crazy person.
Posted by kkaimala[/QUOTE]

I set my date in Jan. She got pregnant first week of March. Her H already knew he was in the wedding at that point.

maratea · May 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Is it ever ok to break the rule?? : <strong>False. </strong> You actually sent the invitations out and did not invite your dads wife. My invitations have not gone out. This is not a relatives spouse. Nice try though. My question was hypothetical. Your rudeness actually came to fruition. Good to see you are still being you though.
Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]

This makes me think of that episode of the Office where Jim dresses at Dwight for a day.
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betrothed123 · May 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Is it ever ok to break the rule?? : False. You actually sent the invitations out and did not invite your dads wife. My invitations have not gone out. This is not a relatives spouse. Nice try though. My question was hypothetical. Your rudeness actually came to fruition. Good to see you are still being you though.
Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]

Clearly we need a link now so we can see what really went down.

Blueyed228 · May 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Is it ever ok to break the rule?? : Clearly we need a link now so we can see what really went down.
Posted by betrothed123[/QUOTE]

Ill have to search for it. Lol. I gave her the same advice that I would give myself. If I dont want her there, then I cant invite her H either. But since he is a GM, I know I have to invite her. Im just hoping she doesnt come.

I was just wondering if there was anything short of her sleeping with my FI that would make it ok for me to tell her to F off when it comes to my wedding, lol.

Obviously she will be invited to the wedding and RD. But since she is not a friend or family, not so much to the other stuff.

Celles · May 2010

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[QUOTE]You's a ho. HO!
Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]

I'm pretty sure the word you're looking for is "heaux."

Shazzie116 · May 2010

Save some for me!

The chocolate, not the vaseline.

[Deleted User] · May 2010

What if it's chocolate vaseline?

Blueyed228 · May 2010

I prefer vanilla. Or at least caramel. Ohhhh or butterscotch!

Shazzie116 · May 2010

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[QUOTE]What if it's chocolate vaseline?
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

I don't want to know why the vaseline is brown...I'm certainly not tasting it to see if it's chocolate.

[Deleted User] · May 2010

It's chocolate because I say it's chocolate. GOSH. Is my word not good enough anymore?

Shazzie116 · May 2010

Well, now that you're just another old married lady, I don't know.

Also, I really love your monogram. Are you having it monogrammed on your bathroom handtowels?

ETA: *embroidered

[Deleted User] · May 2010

Yes, of course. But only the ones in the guest bathroom. That's all we can afford for now.

Shazzie116 · May 2010

Or you could print it on one of those iron on sheets, just make sure you print it backwards so it doesn't end up saying "wec & ydnac nam s'wec".

[Deleted User] · May 2010

Or maybe I could have them airbrushed. Hmmm. I need to find someone with some airbrush skills.

Shazzie116 · May 2010

Or you could just permanently tramp-stamp it.

[Deleted User] · May 2010

Hmmm. Good idea. Tramp stamps are always a great option.

Shazzie116 · May 2010

Yes. Yes they are. Nothing says sexy like getting inked over your buttcrack.

[Deleted User] · May 2010

And nothing says buttcrack like a monkey wearing a pair of ice skates.

Shazzie116 · May 2010

I've got nothing. I bow to you.

[Deleted User] · May 2010

I'm out too. Off to bed. Have a good night!

ZaNyTarT · May 2010

I have a similar sticky situation with a girl I grew up with. If I had my preference, I wouldn't have invited her to my wedding, but I did since I had to invite her whole family.

I just keep telling myself these options:
1) If she doesn't show up, she makes herself look bad.
2) If she shows up and makes a scene, she makes herself look bad in front of all the mutual friends.
3) If she shows up and is polite and enjoys herself respectfully, then it will make me look like the bigger person for inviting her.

Most likely, she'll probably be totally confused when you step up, be the bigger person, and invite her. And if she really can't stand you as much as she acts, then she won't show up at all... no matter what happens, it's a win/win situation for you and you've proven you have a better handle on the conflict than she does.

Hope this helps!

artrice.sanders · May 2010

That chick can stay at home. I am not going to be be uncomfortable on my wedding day due to the idiotic behavior of some female that I 1. do not like, and 2. talks constanct nonsense about me.

Talk to your FI ASAP and have him explain that this woman is constantly harrassing you and you are uncomfortable with having her there. It may be considered a bridezilla move, but I will be smiling up and down throughout every photo and thoroughly enjoying the day that I invested so much time and money into.

I say do you what you feel is right..whether it is invite her or not.....but with whatever decision you make, be sure that you are completely happy with it!

Congrats!

Livvy<3 · May 2010

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[QUOTE]After reading all of this I had the horrible picture in my mind of her showing up at the wedding and then going into labor. I hope she doesn't pull any crap to ruin the wedding but she just sounds the the kind of person that would do it just because she can. Good luck with this. I am sorry if I stressed you out more. I feel stressed for you. I don't think I can stop thinking about this.
Posted by erollis[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>This is exactly what I thought she would try to do to steal all the attention. If anything talk with FI about suggesting both GM and the B stay home since it isn't a good idea for someone so pregnant being at a Wedding.</div>

betrothed123 · May 2010

Thank god for all the newbs that came in 4 days late to validate the OP long after the thread had changed topics.

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