Hi all,
Advice please: I asked one of my oldest dearest friends to be one of my bridesmaids, and she was very excited about it! However, she says that she is "90% sure she can come" to my wedding. She is just beginning a medical career and can't know today what she will be doing next summer, but won't be able to plan her weekends around me next summer either (well she says for a weekend conference or an exam final, she would have to miss the wedding--those are not exactly emergencies that can't be foreseen, but of course I don't expect her to miss them if they are important, either).
My problem: What do I do with a bridesmaid who wants the job but won't really commit to coming? My parents will be livid if she doesn't show up, and I will be heartrboken. So will the other friends and cousins I am close to who didn't get included, who see me standing up front of the church with four people, while my fiance has five (I know some will wonder why I would leave them out).
My friend says we'll discuss again when I pick the exact date (I've narrowed it down to two that are both questionable for her, and I know when I call her back she'll be just as iffy about her attendance). What do I do???