Hi Ladies....I need your opinions! One of my BMs has a tattoo on the back of her neck, would it be completely awful of me to ask her to cover it up for the wedding (I would pay whatever it costs for cover-up)? It is not an offensive tat or anything but I just don't feel it is appropriate for my wedding day. Even though I don't find it offensive, a lot of the elders in my family (specifically my grandmother) find any type of tattoo overly offensive & my grandmother is the type of person to say something to my BM (she is also my FSIL...not my FI's sister but she is my FI's brother's wife). Besides the aesthetic reasoning, I want to avoid possible wedding day confrontations at all cost!
Am I an awful person for considering this? THANKS