So I have been engaged since Oct 2009. My wedding is coming up in Nov and I have pretty much have done every single thing for my wedding alone. I had ask her her help awhile back when I was planning the big things and she was always busy with other things. It got to the point where I called her and kinda gave her an out for being my MOH. I asked if she really wanted to do it. I know she is busy with work and being a mom and she was in 3 other weddings this year alone, but I needed help. She told me that she did want to do it but she felt that the other weddings were more inportant at that time since they came before mine. But that was when I was planning and I didn't think I should have to put my planning on hold because of her. So I ended up doing it all alone.
So now the date is getting closer and I still have things to get finished. Nothing major but a bunch of small things and she knows I have been stressing over it and I still don't get help.
I'm not sure what to do... I don't have but 2 girl friends sadly and they are both in the wedding. One lives up north and has helped when she could when she was here a little. I'm just stressed about it and wonder if this is common and what others have done about it.
Any help, advise, or kind words would be greatful!
.: Michele :.
"I'm looking for love. Real love. Ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can't-live-without-each-other love." AND I FOUND IT!!!