my 16 year old sister died in 2007 in a car crash. We were super close (I wish more than anything that she could be at our wedding), and we had always planned for her to be my maid of honor (I decided not to have a maid of honor- all of my girls are bridesmaids) when my fiance and I got married. I know that a wedding is a happy event, so I don't want to do anything that is depressing. Does anyone have any suggestions of how I can honor my baby sis in a tasteful manner without bringing the mood down? Thanks!