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Flower Allergies

I am having an indoor wedding in 9/12. I have some pretty serious pollen allergies so, to minimize the odds of me having a runny nose on my wedding day, no real flowers allowed! This creates a dilemma for my bouquet though ... I don't want cheesy silk flowers that look fake. One of my former coworkers makes pinwheels that are super cute (customized paper to match my colors). but I don't know if that would look odd in an indoor ceremony. What have other people done in this situation?

Re: Flower Allergies

  • Have you thought about doing a large, single flower? Like your BMs and you could carry a single callalily? I have allergies too and keeping the flowers simple and to a minimum could possibly work for ya. Good luck!

  • You can get nice looking silks, they're just more spendy.  More ideas here:

    http://offbeatbride.com/2009/03/wedding-bouquets
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    Sometimes I feel like people think that brides are delicate little flower princesses who get all dressed up and pretty for one special moment of their dreams, when really they're just normal people who just happen to be getting married. Things shouldn't have to be sugar-coated for grown-ass women. -mstar284
  • I also have allergies, and my sister, who is a BM, has them worse than me.

    I'm using all paper flowers:




    http://www.etsy.com/shop/Lunatiger

    I ordered a bouquet for myself, and then 150 single flowers to make 5 BM bouquets, FG bouquets, GM/family bouts and corsages, and use the rest in centrepieces.  It cost $250 total.

    I also ordered some wooden flowers in for reception decor:

    http://www.etsy.com/shop/AccentsandPetals

    I got a box of 160 non-painted for $25. 

    This was definitely the way to go for me.  I didn't want to spend a lot of money on flowers, and I got them all in early so I don't have to worry about live flowers a day or two before the wedding!

    If you really want to use pinwheels, I think they are also cute and a good alternative.  Just thought I'd show you my ideas!

    Hope that helps!
  • tiffbot, I LOVE your flower ideas!  I might get some of those wooden flowers, too, to jazz up the centerpieces!
    aerin, I've also seen some really interesting posts about brooch bouquets that look really awesome!
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  • Afloral and Save on Crafts have some really high quality "real touch" flowers. They've very authentic looking, but pricey.
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  • I personally did paper flowers as well, but I made them myself.  I didn't do them for allergy reasons, but because they were cheaper and totally awesome.  Pictures in bio under "Other Stuff".

    This is a neglected planning bio.
    This is a belated married bio, with no reviews yet because I'm lazy.

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    Sometimes I feel like people think that brides are delicate little flower princesses who get all dressed up and pretty for one special moment of their dreams, when really they're just normal people who just happen to be getting married. Things shouldn't have to be sugar-coated for grown-ass women. -mstar284
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_attire-accessories_flower-allergies?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:15Discussion:38e67f8f-18e6-4c3d-a443-5fc62ab36628Post:bc82ac3b-93f7-4067-a778-19a10b622f76">Re: Flower Allergies</a>:
    [QUOTE]I personally did paper flowers as well, <strong>but I made them myself.</strong>  I didn't do them for allergy reasons, but because they were cheaper and totally awesome.  Pictures in bio under "Other Stuff".
    Posted by aerinpegadrak[/QUOTE]

    I attempted.

    Etsy became my best friend once I did one ;-)  Haha.
  • edited April 2011
    I have terrible allergies also and am not using any flowers at all.  But mostly because I like alternative options better.  My mom is making my bouquet out of charms, pins, & other jewlery from family and friends.  Here's my inspiration photo below.  My FI is having a charm engraved with our initials and wedding date attached to a ribbon for his boutonniere.

    Our colors are yellow and green, so we're using lemons and limes for decor at the party.  We're also thinking of adding pin-wheels as well!

  • You could also do something totally different from a bouquet, too.  You could carry a Bible or book of poetry, rosary (if Catholic) family heirloom of some sort, candle, a bag/purse/clutch, a handkerchief, large peacocck feather (real or simulated), a foldout fan, or even get into the idea of fall harvest and carry a small pumpkin, ear of multicolor corn (used for decor), or pomander made of pinecones.

    And btw, great date - my parents were married on Sept 12. They will celebrate 41 years of marriage this year :-)
  • I used silk flowers. Here is a pic. They certainly don't look "cheesy" :)


  • The origami flowers are gorgeous! Thank you for the ideas. Glad I am not the only one in this predicament. :)
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Flower Allergies : I attempted. Etsy became my best friend once I did one ;-)  Haha.
    Posted by tiffbot1985[/QUOTE]
    I was dead set on roses, and the Kawasaki rose beat me into submission.  I went through several prototype designs before I found one that was relatively simple and still looked good.
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    Sometimes I feel like people think that brides are delicate little flower princesses who get all dressed up and pretty for one special moment of their dreams, when really they're just normal people who just happen to be getting married. Things shouldn't have to be sugar-coated for grown-ass women. -mstar284
  • I'm doing silk flowers, because I love flowers but they don't love me as much :\ and flowers is the one thing I wanted to be extravagant on. I found a lady in Pennsylvania who does silk flowers for a reasonable price.

    http://www.sharonnagassardesigns.com/

    She's so friendly, I can't wait for my flowers to get here!

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