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InferiorToKaos
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"Never Argue with an Idiot, They'll drag you down to their level and beat you with experience"
Long Overdue Vent
This vent is long overdue...almost a whole year.
I'm not going to lie that I am super excited that our 1 year anniversary is on the 29th. Time sure flies. Not to mention that we are going on vacation for 5 days to celebrate and spend much needed time together.
This is the time I wish that we could open up a bottle of wine we had at the wedding, and watch our wedding video. The wedding video that we still don't have. :-(
Since we only planned the actual wedding in 27 days, we made alot of quick decisions. Everything worked out. A fellow knottie at the time gave me the name of her Future-Father in law to do our photography, and then volunteered to do the video for free! I was so excited. Everything worked out great, pictures were fantastic and affordable...and she was there and took all the video and some cute little clips of one on one with each of us. She stayed the whole time obviously, enjoyed music, cake, and dinner. But now I find us a year later...she has been ignoring my calls and emails, and I still dont have that wedding video.
I told her it didn't need to be edited or anything. That I would pay for it even. Still no response. I'm just sad that I may never see that wedding video now :-(
Vent over
I'm not going to lie that I am super excited that our 1 year anniversary is on the 29th. Time sure flies. Not to mention that we are going on vacation for 5 days to celebrate and spend much needed time together.
This is the time I wish that we could open up a bottle of wine we had at the wedding, and watch our wedding video. The wedding video that we still don't have. :-(
Since we only planned the actual wedding in 27 days, we made alot of quick decisions. Everything worked out. A fellow knottie at the time gave me the name of her Future-Father in law to do our photography, and then volunteered to do the video for free! I was so excited. Everything worked out great, pictures were fantastic and affordable...and she was there and took all the video and some cute little clips of one on one with each of us. She stayed the whole time obviously, enjoyed music, cake, and dinner. But now I find us a year later...she has been ignoring my calls and emails, and I still dont have that wedding video.
I told her it didn't need to be edited or anything. That I would pay for it even. Still no response. I'm just sad that I may never see that wedding video now :-(
Vent over
"Never Argue with an Idiot, They'll drag you down to their level and beat you with experience"
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Re: Long Overdue Vent
I'd say your vent is definitely justified.
Dresses may be easier to take in than let out, but guest lists are not. -- kate51485
(Married)meganandshane.weebly.com~
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"Never Argue with an Idiot, They'll drag you down to their level and beat you with experience"
Did she end up getting married? I thought I heard some drama about things being called off. In any case - not cool. Maybe your mutual friends could intervene on your behalf?
Dresses may be easier to take in than let out, but guest lists are not. -- kate51485
This really sucks. Best of luck with it though!
(Married)meganandshane.weebly.com~
(Planning)shaneandmegan.weebly.com
As far as she goes though, I'm going to try to find out if there's anyone who still talks to her. I can't find her wedding website online anymore, so I don't know if they broke up or whatever,
"Never Argue with an Idiot, They'll drag you down to their level and beat you with experience"
So, I get that you want to find her, but I don't think it's at all appropriate for you to list what she's doing, where to find her, or any of that kind of personal information.
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"Never Argue with an Idiot, They'll drag you down to their level and beat you with experience"
Off to work now, so if I don't respond for several hours, that is why.
"Never Argue with an Idiot, They'll drag you down to their level and beat you with experience"
And for the record, that sucks, and I'm really sorry about your video. I hope you can track her down somehow.
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[QUOTE]It's not super personal I guess, but I just always think it's kind of creepy to link to other people's stuff.
Posted by emilyinchile[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I agree.