My fiancee and I got into a HUGE argument over Christmas regarding my last name. I don't want to change it. I love him very much, but changing my last name is something I'm really having a hard time with. He says that if I can't bring myself to take his last name, he's not sure if he can marry me! And I just can't see myself at all without my maiden name. Both names are rather long, and hyphenating would be akward. Any ideas out there? We have a while before the wedding, but this is something really bothering me!