Hello, my fiance and I are having a dry wedding reception. Neither of us really drink, same goes for a lot of our friends and members of the wedding party. We also want the wedding to be kid-appropriate, as my extended family continues to expand and we don't want to exclude the children. We also want people to be safe when they leave. For us, not offering alcohol is our personal preference, and has nothing to do with reducing costs or anything like that. It will be 100% dry.
My concern is, do we tell the guests? Some members of my family have suggested that we give people a heads up, because they will expect alcohol. My fiance and I don't think it's necessary, because our guests will be attending to share in the celebration of our marriage, not as an excuse to drink. I worry that if we choose to tell them, will some family members try to sneak in alcohol? Or just not come? But if we don't say anything, will they think that we're being inconsiderate or tight with money? Maybe they'll think we're rude for not telling them in advance? I would love your thoughts on this. Thanks!