So today I was at work and my boss and I needed to speak to the Chief Medical Officer about a case. He interrupts and says to my boss, "You know, under our watch, Shoes has gained weight". And I replied, "Dr. XYZ, I just lost 3 pounds!"
He replied, "Good. Only another 30 to go!" I'm now crying at my desk.
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I would call a meeting tomorrow between the two of them and you, in private, and say "what you said about my weight was not only inappropriate, but also rude. Give me a good reason why I shouldn't take this to HR."
If responds poorly I would walk right over there.
I mean, I know I need to lose some weight, but I didn't think I was getting so heavy that people would start pointing it out. I'm a size 10-12, which isn't skinny, but seriously? I can't believe this.
You HAVE to say something to him to let him know that what he did was unprofessional and stand up for yourself.
Practice this: "I expected better conduct from a physician who is a leader here."
Or "Thank you for hurting my feelings with the weight comments Dr XYZ, please use your professional manners from now from now on."
Or "What you said about my weight was not only inappropriate, but also rude."
[QUOTE]It's a small company. There is no HR...and he's basically at the same level as the CEO. There is no one I can complain to. I mean, I know I need to lose some weight, but I didn't think I was getting so heavy that people would start pointing it out. I'm a size 10-12, which isn't skinny, but seriously? I can't believe this.
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I'm a size 10. I do not think I am fat. I'm not skinny, but I'm not fat either. He is just a d!ck!
Still here and still fabulous!
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I'm so sorry and so angry for you shoes. Do something nice for yourself tonight and get lots of cuddles from FI. Forget this classless moron.
I've felt so horrible all day about this.
[QUOTE]Shoes, whether you say anything to this person or not, the most important thing is to NOT let some jerkoff make you feel badly about yourself. Don't give him that power over you for one second longer. You are beautiful inside and out, and it wouldn't matter what size you are, it would never be his business. <strong>Besides, he probably has a very small peen.</strong>
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</div><div>I'm glad I finished my drink right before I read that.
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You are a beautiful, kind, smart woman. Please don't give his comment any more of your life, it's not worth your energy!
FWIW, my GOAL is to be a 10/12.
*hugs*
You should leave a poop on his desk. A dog poop. Put a little flag in it that says "I bet you have a small peen".
Ok you probably shouldn't do that..but fantasizing about it at work might help you get through the day.
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You should have said, "And only five years left of charm school before you become a human being - yay for goals!"
Fvck that guy. Can I kick him?
ETA: I think you need a giant margarita tonight.