January 2012 Weddings

Sad it's over?

Are any of you really sad the wedding planning and the actual wedding itself is over? I sure am. I think about the wedding all the time. I replay moments of it back in my mind a lot. Also, I have dreams about the wedding almost every night. I don't have regrets or feel the need to do it over again, I just keep having these dreams that involve the wedding in one way or another.

I'm sad that my bridesmaids will never get together again with me to go dress shopping or to throw me a party. I am sad that my mom and I don't have dress fittings to go on a random Wednesday night. And I'm really sad that all of our wedding guests will never be together again. I mean, really, when will we have all of our loved ones in the same room again?

I guess I just loved planning my wedding. I was so excited about everything and in the end it sure did come together the way I invisioned it but now I am just so sad it's all over. Does anyone else feel the way I'm feeling?
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Re: Sad it's over?

  • Yeah... I really miss it. I ended up going with my MOH to joann's (a fabric store) yesterday, because I was having fabric shopping withdrawl from the wedding. I think I am bummed because there is nothign to look forward to now.
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    [QUOTE]Yeah... I really miss it. I ended up going with my MOH to joann's (a fabric store) yesterday, because I was having fabric shopping withdrawl from the wedding. I think I am bummed because there is nothign to look forward to now.
    Posted by awarm014[/QUOTE]

    I'm glad I'm not the only one.
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  • hippoloverhippolover member
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    edited February 2012
    YES!

    I think thats why I am in a funk! I don't have anything extra to plan or look forward too. 

  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.weddingchannel.com/main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_january-2012-weddings_sad-its-over?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:5a1804e7-e8c8-4829-9e61-b9d49f3a9b5fDiscussion:edfd7eef-6782-4366-9c92-a634144e3223Post:106ced45-11a4-4ffc-865e-631bc0bf9c29">Sad it's over?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Are any of you really sad the wedding planning and the actual wedding itself is over? I sure am. I think about the wedding all the time.
    Posted by TaraW1979[/QUOTE]

    I'm sad, but only because I have nothing to do at work anymore.  So I've started trying to plan our next cruise.

    Anybody interested in getting a group of us together next January?  Maybe we could all get a group rate.....:)
  • Maybe... we will have to see what our job situation looks like.
  • I'm sad it's over too. I got excited every time we received something related to the wedding, like the video and photos. We have everything now except for the album I'll be making so there's nothing to look forward to in the mail anymore!
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Sad it's over? :  Anybody interested in getting a group of us together next January?  Maybe we could all get a group rate.....:)
    Posted by jtmh2012[/QUOTE]

    We might be depending on our money situation! What about Vegas? That might be cheaper for some people.
  • edited February 2012
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_january-2012-weddings_sad-its-over?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:5a1804e7-e8c8-4829-9e61-b9d49f3a9b5fDiscussion:edfd7eef-6782-4366-9c92-a634144e3223Post:4d52efe6-f1a8-4e12-840a-c830bee9b347">Re: Sad it's over?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sad it's over? : We might be depending on our money situation! What about Vegas? That might be cheaper for some people.
    Posted by hippolover[/QUOTE]
    I'd be interested in a trip to Vegas!
  • I guess I don't care where we go. I love to travel the world.  I have been to 8 different contries and 30 some states. But its an expensive passion. We could be camping for all that I care, just as long as we are together!
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sad it's over? : We might be depending on our money situation! What about Vegas? That might be cheaper for some people.
    Posted by hippolover[/QUOTE]

    I could maybe be talked into Vegas.....:)
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    [QUOTE]I guess I don't care where we go. I love to travel the world.  I have been to 8 different contries and 30 some states. But its an expensive passion. We could be camping for all that I care, just as long as we are together!
    Posted by hippolover[/QUOTE]

    I've never left the country.  I have a feeling the world is going to get a lot smaller in the next year.
  • Vegas-
    Cheap
    Buffet
    I love love love that you can walk around with a drink in your hand
    Warm
    good shoes
    basically an adult playground.

    Interested?
  • I'm interested in Vegas for sure!
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    [QUOTE]I'm sad it's over too. I got excited every time we received something related to the wedding, like the video and photos. We have everything now except for the album I'll be making so there's nothing to look forward to in the mail anymore!
    Posted by Cony&Ben[/QUOTE]

    I know the feeling! It sucks, doesn't it?!
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    [QUOTE]Vegas- Cheap Buffet I love love love that you can walk around with a drink in your hand Warm good shoes basically an adult playground. Interested?
    Posted by hippolover[/QUOTE]

    Just checked the flights to Vegas for the month of January.  Currently about $540 for an economy class ticket from Virginia.  About what I paid to go to Hawaii....lol
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sad it's over? : Just checked the flights to Vegas for the month of January.  Currently about $540 for an economy class ticket from Virginia.  About what I paid to go to Hawaii....lol
    Posted by jtmh2012[/QUOTE]

    <div>Flights change all the time. We'd have to start looking in the summer for January. </div>
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.weddingchannel.com/main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_january-2012-weddings_sad-its-over?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:5a1804e7-e8c8-4829-9e61-b9d49f3a9b5fDiscussion:edfd7eef-6782-4366-9c92-a634144e3223Post:8cf30528-3413-4fe5-812a-a9af41e1eb5d">Re: Sad it's over?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sad it's over? : Flights change all the time. We'd have to start looking in the summer for January. 
    Posted by TaraW1979[/QUOTE]

    I know.  Just figured I'd ballpark it as a savings target. :)
  • I kind of miss it, even though I always complained that my weekends were taken up with wedding planning.

    I am trying to fill my days with other things...I just joined a boot camp to try and get in better shape and I am also training for a 1/2 marathon.

    But for a few weeks after the honeymoon were were kind of like...what next?  So I totally get it!
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