Confessions

bbyckes · December 2009

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[QUOTE]I think I worry myself about sex issues. I loved oral with a different guy I dated in college, although it only happened a few times since it was a short lived relationship, but I don't love it with H. He actually wasn't the best kisser either when we started dating, but I taught him better :) Sex is better with him than anyone else, so that's good, I guess I just always imagined that my husband would be the best at everything. So either that was unrealistic or I'm doomed to divorce because of oral. <strong>Ok maybe I should stop the TMI posts.</strong>
Posted by tlv204[/QUOTE]

I appreciate your honesty and I can definitely relate.

tlv204 · December 2009

Yeah i do, I guess I just like sex better, and since it's mutually beneficial, we kind of tend to skip the other stuff

Night_Sprite · December 2009

FI never did oral before me and while oral is good, I find it difficult to get into it. I have very strict grooming and just showered rules for oral.

nda_roxybabe · December 2009

I confess I'm horribly annoyed with T.

He is so freaked out about his fucking invisible stretch marks that he is dreading the cruise and its hard to be excited when hes being a brat because he doesnt want to go.

louisvillebride21 · December 2009

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[QUOTE]I confess I'm horribly annoyed with T. He is so freaked out about his fucking invisible stretch marks that he is dreading the cruise and its hard to be excited when hes being a brat because he doesnt want to go.
Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]
HAHAHAHAHA! FI is being such a girl about our cruise too. He wants me to 'teach' him how to tan, he started going back to the gym and kinda wants to nair his chest hair...weirdo.

louisvillebride21 · December 2009

Oral just isn't a big deal to me. I have never had a legit O so the oral just really doesn't do it for me. Ok foreplay but it's just eh.

lauralaur · December 2009

Sorry I deleted the pictures I posted because I realized the ones I copied straight from facebook were linking to my facebook account.

nda_roxybabe · December 2009

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : HAHAHAHAHA! FI is being such a girl about our cruise too. He wants me to 'teach' him how to tan, he started going back to the gym and kinda wants to nair his chest hair...weirdo.
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]
Seriously. It's making me so pissed. I've been hearing about the damn stretch marks for 6 months now. They're only noticeable if he points them out and you really look but he thinks they're like blaring red, deep, scars. Nothing I say helps and he is seriously depressed about it.

tlv204 · December 2009

I know this doesn't help, but I'm a teensy bit jealous of the stretch mark freak out. If my H cared one tenth that much about his appearance, we wouldn't keep having to have these conversations about why it's necessary to shave, wash your face, and use some zit cream regularly. He really really doesn't care.

Also, it would come in handy if you had some really bad stretch marks to compare to his. I guess that's not the case?

LnDUBS · December 2009

I confess that my birthday is coming up soon. Usually no one makes a big deal of it because its right around Christmas. My future mother in law wants to have a big family dinner for me. I really can't believe how lucky I am, she is so wonderful to me.

But, my confession is that i'm sad that my parents never do anything for me for my birthday. I don't think we've gone out for dinner in the last 5 years. It makes me sad that they don't make the effort, they just toss me a card with cash.

nda_roxybabe · December 2009

tlv- yea, T is very concerned about his looks but he has serious self conscious issues and some depression/ anxiety too.
I have like 3 stretch marks which just annoys him as theyre not noticeable. I've showed him pics of BAD stretch marks but he's like "thats how mine look!"

amalama · December 2009

Roxy-My BF thinks he has a bald spot. I swear to god his hair is as thick as the day I met him 5 years ago. But I picked up some Rogaine (he asked me too, I made fun of him forever, and then finally gave in) and he thinks it makes a huge difference. So I tell him his hair looks thicker and everyone is happy.

So basically, find something that says it works for stretch marks, and let him think that his imaginary horrible stretch marks are fixed!

nda_roxybabe · December 2009

Ama- I've tried it. We've bought bottles, and bottles of stretch mark cream, lotion, oil, etc. I've said oh yeah, less noticeable...he doesn't buy it. I even bought sunless tanner because its supposed to help (evening out the color and all) nope. He's hopeless

katiewhompus · December 2009

I too always prounced it Opallskee

I have been hoping for the last year that I will be pregnant by Christmas. I'll find out soon (AF is supposed to start tomorrow) if its going to happen. Part of me is really sad though because I had this whole plan for announcing it to his family and my parents at the same time over Christmas. Well now dh's sisters' in-laws (following me?) are also coming to Christmas and I don't want them to know about it right away. So while I'll still be ecstatic if I am, I'll be a little sad that sil's in-laws unknowingly ruined by big surprise idea.

nda_roxybabe · December 2009

Aww Katie I've been hoping you'll get KU soon. Which reminds me, my AF is MIA but I don't know what to think about it since I seem to have problems anyway

thesuninherhead · December 2009

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[QUOTE]Am I the only one who was reading it Opal Sky all along? And thanks for the compliments!
Posted by lauralaur[/QUOTE]
I have always read it as Opal Sky, too.

thesuninherhead · December 2009

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[QUOTE]WHAT WHAT WHAT?! I can't believe there are so many people who don't like it. Wow.
Posted by AmoroAgain[/QUOTE]

I second this, but having had multiple partners with various levels of ability (haha), I must say that if you had a partner who wasn't particularly good at it, it can be quite awkward and thus makes you self conscious to the point where you can't enjoy it (either that, or they just really have no clue whatsoever and really suck at it (only not literally suck, or they'd probably be doing a better job of getting you off! haha)).

In any case, good oral should not be scoffed at.

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thesuninherhead · December 2009

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[QUOTE]I too always prounced it Opallskee I have been hoping for the last year that I will be pregnant by Christmas. I'll find out soon (AF is supposed to start tomorrow) if its going to happen. Part of me is really sad though because I had this whole plan for announcing it to his family and my parents at the same time over Christmas. Well now dh's sisters' in-laws (following me?) are also coming to Christmas and I don't want them to know about it right away. So while I'll still be ecstatic if I am, I'll be a little sad that sil's in-laws unknowingly ruined by big surprise idea.
Posted by katiewhompus[/QUOTE]

I'll have my fingers crossed for you, katie!

mwhitson14 · December 2009

I don't have much to confess other than a TMI post, which is that I'm blessed to have a FI who loves and is very good at giving it, even though I rarely reciprocate.

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