I HATE GUEST LISTS! I'm not in the business of making enemies. My guest list is still 220 people and the venue only holds 196 and invites need to go out in a few weeks. I didn't send save the dates due to the fact that I didn't want to lock in a guest list. I don't know who to cut and it's stressing me out! I hate this! I really sholud have planned better but I'm optimistic and very indecisive. Sorry there's not much anyone can do I just needed to vent to other brides.