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First no: sad :(

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I talked to a good friend of mine who lives out of town. I found out today she is going to be having a baby, and I am so excited for her! But, this means she's not going to be able to make it to our wedding, and I am so bummed! She was someone I really wanted there.

Then I started getting nervous that a lot of my friends, who live OOT, aren't going to be there and it's going to be all of my crazy, older aunts. Irrational, I know, but still. Anyone else feel this way about No RSVPs?
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Re: First no: sad :(

  • october010brideoctober010bride
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    edited December 2011
    I totally understand and know where you are coming from. All of my family and most of my friends are OOT and sometimes I think, what if NO ONE on my side comes!

    In the end, stressing out will get you no where. Just relax and take the no's in stride. And remember, your day will be perfect no matter who comes  :)
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  • Shazzie116Shazzie116 member
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    edited December 2011
    Awww don't worry! We didn't have a lot of no's, but it was definitely disappointing when we got them because each person we invited we really really wanted to come. We had a friend who was due the week of our wedding, she actually had the baby 2 days before the wedding and we found out the day after the wedding. It's such a happy occasion though so you have to just enjoy spending time with those who come and keep the rest in your heart :)
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  • noodle_oonoodle_oo member
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    edited December 2011
    Don't worry, I feel the same way.  I have found out 4 of our friends/cousins are pregnant within weeks of our wedding and at least 2 of the couples are definitely not coming, not sure about the other 2.  I'm so happy for all of them, but very disappointed since our wedding is so small already (<70 people) and they are all close friends.  I have the same panic (why are we spending so much money, what if no one comes???).  But like the others said, no use stressing out over things you can't control!  But I know, it is disappointing!
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