So the photographer emailed me back, didn't respond about my date and said we could discuss it in person. I'm already adjusting our budget because decent photographers down there are so much more expensive, but that's ok. FI and are looking it over later this week to see what our absolute max would be total and going from there. I figured I would let her come with her number, we'd come with ours and go from there. For ours, the pack I want is 3g, but includes a bunch of stuff we don't want. If we subract that and divide by the time difference, we're looking at 1800, which is still more than I wanted to spend but much easier to afford. I'm going to make a list of prints I'm going to want to see what the total will be in the grand scheme of things.
edit: spelling
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